Freedom of choice for how to choose to behave...not freedom from consequences! I read a quote recently that I really like, which went something along these lines:
Over the years, I've adopted the idea the true happiness requires taking 100% responsibility for our personal happiness in life. While we can't control everything that happens to us, we CAN choose how we react, which means that we can manage our consequences, whether or not we're personally responsible for what we're dealing with (ex. getting cancer, getting hit by a car in an accident, etc.). The most unhappy people I know are the ones who refuse to take any sort of personal responsibility over (1) their personal happiness, and (2) managing the consequences that are on their plate, regardless of the source of them.
We all exist within finite circumstances, which is why I like the concept of "moral agency", i.e. we get to choose to (1) change our situation (within the limitations of our means), and (2) decide how to act & react within our given circumstances. I was just surfing reddit & there were stories right next to each other about a guy who decided to shoot 14 people in Prague followed by another story about a guy who decided to donate his time to a local animal shelter by taking dogs for a walk on Christmas day because they didn't have anyone available to give them attention that day due to being short-staffed because of the holiday schedule. They both had their moral agency about how they chose to behave within their individual set of circumstances.
I've come to accept the fact that rejecting personal responsibility is simply living in denial (which we're all free to do! haha).