here is how i feel about america and americans. premise: i'm european.
people in the US are better than in EU. and they can be worse as well, both come from the same difference between the two "worlds", the old world (EU) and the US.
in EU, you "are" the job you work at. At most, you are your degree, but even that is stretching it. If you are a plumber, then everyone thinks thats all you are. You are not allowed any dreams, aspirations, hobbies, or personality.
In the US, you can work at a starbucks, and you can introduce yourself to people as "i'm a artist" or "i'm gonna be a financial genius" and people will take your word for it.
Of course, then you have to come through; you gotta deliver. But no US person will say "you aren't shit because you don't work in any job related to what you want to be", while in EU that's standard for pretty much everyone.
In the US you are allowed to be completely crazy. You can go to someone and start talking about how aliens abducted Elvis and killed Kennedy, and people are cool with that; "he's weird" is about as bad as you are going to be judged.
In EU, if you don't follow a strict and expansive unwritten ruleset, you become untouchable. Having any complex conceptual opinion is considered dangerous and you will be warned that anyone who dares follow his dreams or ideology will "wind up in a bad way".
I've never been to a part in EU where 70% of the people invited bust out their own bag of kindbud, or a kegger. In the US, you can walk down the street, see a party, walk in, say "hi, i just walked in, can i get a brew" and people will just beer you. In EU, they would kick you out and yell furiously.
There is no casual sex in EU. Marriage looms like the spectre of death over every kiss. There's no working out, rocking out, copping out, dropping out. There's just study/work, keep your head down, and don't criticize your boss.
You are also practically not allowed to change jobs, ever.
We have stability. The US has freedom. Our downside is boredom, yours is madness.
(mind you, it's not legal freedom i'm talking about - it's social freedom)