Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Also, you have absurdly unrealistic expectations. I mean, how realistic is it to expect to fit in "everywhere you go"..? That's just fvcking absurd. No-one fits in everywhere they go.
people with advanced social skills may not be able to "fit in" but they will be able to vibe with just about any person or group of people.
maybe you'd like to define "vibe", and also "advanced social skills"
I would say it is possible to have poise and self-confidence, and a fairly high level of awareness of social requirements in various situations, and that that can facilitate establishing and building relationships with a wide variety of types of people.
"Vibing" with "just about any person or group of people" sounds highly undesirable to me. In fact, if you are able to "vibe" with just about anyone, then chances are there is nothing much distinctive about your personality, at all. You'd really have to be extroadinairily bland to "vibe" with the entire planet. If you are such a person, then you definitely won't be "vibing" with me - in fact, I'll be avoiding you, perhaps even telling you to get away from me because I find you to be so repulsively bland and uninteresting.
like i said you don't get it yet. vibing has alot to do with the energy your bring to an interaction and very little to do with the content of the interaction. Have you ever had an exchange with a complete stranger that just left a big smile on your face for the rest of the day?