Do you know a total loser, tell us about them

WaTaGuMp

Lifer
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I am speaking of someone you know in real life, lets not start bashing people from here.

I know this guy, who is a friend of a friend. I wont give his name, but this dude never graduated high school. Just got out of prison last year for assault. Has totally fucked up teeth from drugs. No job, has 7 kids and his planning a wedding right now to a woman who also has 4 kids.
 

Thebobo

Lifer
Jun 19, 2006
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I am speaking of someone you know in real life, lets not start bashing people from here.

I know this guy, who is a friend of a friend. I wont give his name, but this dude never graduated high school. Just got out of prison last year for assault. Has totally fucked up teeth from drugs. No job, has 7 kids and his planning a wedding right now to a woman who also has 4 kids.

Need pics of your bride to be.
 
May 13, 2009
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I am speaking of someone you know in real life, lets not start bashing people from here.

I know this guy, who is a friend of a friend. I wont give his name, but this dude never graduated high school. Just got out of prison last year for assault. Has totally fucked up teeth from drugs. No job, has 7 kids and his planning a wedding right now to a woman who also has 4 kids.

Hmm... I didn't graduate hs and went to prison. Although no kids, have all my teeth, and a good job.
 

Imp

Lifer
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Aside from me (hiyo!), just a few assholes with sticks up their asses who still live at home in their 30s while making good money and have longer-term partners.
 

Jaskalas

Lifer
Jun 23, 2004
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OP, he has 7 kids... aside from their obviously messed up life, he has still won.
 

kranky

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Oct 9, 1999
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College classmate, extremely bright. Could add long columns of 3-digit numbers in his head faster than you could do it on a calculator. Got a job at a bank processing checks and won the Employee of the Month award for accuracy 8 times in a row until they stopped giving it out as no one else was ever close.

Fell in love with a crazy pillpopper and they got married. No kids, probably because they spent all their time smoking pot and taking pills. Lost his job for missing too much work, and they lived in a dumpy rental paid for by her father.

Developed agoraphobia and a mild paranoia. Got a few low-level jobs but couldn't keep them because "people were harassing me" which meant someone told him what to do. It wasn't that he felt he was always right, it was that if someone told him what to do he took that as a personal attack.

Got divorced, got on welfare. Spent every day either taking the bus to Walmart to buy stuff or sitting in his apartment smoking pot and taking a boatload of brain-altering pills prescribed to him by his welfare doctor to cure his "anxiety". Figured out how to fake migraines in order to get narcotic pain pills. He could only get 40 a month, and when a refill was due it would last him a week maybe.

Got turned down for disability, found a lawyer who would appeal his case for 30% of the back benefits. Three years later, wins. Asks me if I would help him work out a plan for the money so he doesn't waste it on drugs, said he'd call me a couple weeks before the check arrived. Wants to work the numbers to see if he can get a decent apartment not in the projects, I assure him that with his disability check he can definitely do that in the small low cost of living town he's in.

Couple months later, calls me and says no need to come over, he got the check ($30K) and it's all gone. Gone in 6 weeks, all spent on crack. As he explains this to me, he mentions that a week after he thought it was all gone, he found $200 in the sofa cushion, and promptly spent that on crack too. But with no money, he doesn't do crack - he's too timid to commit crime to get drugs. He's content with his government-paid prescription meds.

Many years later, still living in a Section 8 apartment in the projects and weighs about 350 pounds due to a diet of snack foods and soda.
 

Mixolydian

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A member of my extended family.

Late 30's, 3 kids between the ages of 11-18. $100k in student loan debt, with no degree. Recently married a guy who's about 40, has 2 degrees, but works a part-time minimum wage job. They are broke. Neither of them wants to get a decent job. They can't even afford an $850/month mortgage for their house, or even a cell phone bill. Her parents (also family) foot the bill for just about everything.

And she's pregnant again.
 

_Rick_

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It should be easy to look down on others, but I just cannot look beyond my own shortcomings. Which in itself is a shortcoming, I'm keenly aware of.
This allows me to see no greater loser than myself, even though, realistically, I'm not doing too badly.
 

akahoovy

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I, uh, lost my best friend to drugs in high school. He didn't die, but he became a drastically different person and eventually a sack of burnt-out neurons. He started abusing his mom's stash of Xanax. The mom had a stash of them because she would refill the prescription on a regular basis but would hardly take more than a few a month.

He went from being a very social lady's man to just angry and looking for his next high. Went through who knows how many Xanax, maybe a few hundred, and smoked pot nonstop. Started snorting adderol, etc... I finally had enough of him ditching me at one point when we'd get together somewhere and asked him what the hell his problem was. He didn't give a reply at all. I stopped hanging out with him after that.

He likely doesn't remember much of anything since that time. I know for a fact at our graduation he couldn't recall what classes he had been in since his 11th grade year. Last I saw him before I moved away he was just living at home with his mom after he had flipped the car driving home high one night. I thought he'd be dead by now, but I was surprised to see him active on Facebook.
 

gotsmack

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My best friend in High School. He was the smartest and most popular out of my bunch of friends and the guy everyone thought was going to make it big. He quits school 1 semester away from graduation because he couldn't get on campus housing. He always had this social anxiety thing and it just got worse.

So he gets a crap office job, gets set up with a client's fat daughter and he's worried he won't find someone else so he won't break up with her. I'm not saying she's not good for him because shes fat, but from the one thing I heard about her is that she brought her girlfriends to his birthday party at the bar, drank a whole bunch and then they all left my friend with the bill.

He got hooked on Oxy for about 6 months before he kicks it. I lent him $900 and he won't return my calls now. The sad thing is that I'd rather see him then collect on the money, but he feels guilty. I haven't seen him in 4 years now.

I even e-mailed him last year telling him I was moving to the mid west and he didn't even respond.
 
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Red Squirrel

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One of my "friends" from like preschool. It's actually sad it came to that, since we had tons of fun times in our childhood.

Now he's a thief, breaks into houses, cottages, even broke into my parents' house when I was running my computer business in highschool and part of college. He's been to jail for break and enter and even sexual charges.

Sadly he only got 1 year. It's sad to think that people who do actual crime that affects people barely get time and people who do "computer crime" get 10+ years.
 

JManInPhoenix

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Had an ex-coworker that got into meth & heroin - saw him disintegrate before my eyes in a year. He ended up getting canned, OD'd, recovered, then finally blew his brains out with his glock. Sad thing - he rebuffed mine & several other peoples attempt at help - he just wanted to get high and didnt care about anything else.
 

HeXen

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Dec 13, 2009
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I know a 24 year old that weighs 420 lbs. Still a virgin. Lives at home and still has mommy do his laundry and cook his dinner. He stays up late watching Anime and playing video games. He drinks at least four 44oz soda's just at work alone and spends $15-$25 just on breakfast and pop from quick marts. He wastes his money, like he spent $3k on an ATV and burnt up the motor within one week cause he didn't know about 2 cycle motors requiring mixed gas I guess although I didn't know ATV's came with 2 cycle motors.
Anyway, he complains he's fat and wants girls but is scared of them and won't do anything about his weight but the big issue is he has very high standards, he wants a really pretty, thin girl but even if he lost all the fat he'd still be huge so dunno there....

I know of several other losers but it certainly seems the millennial generation of kids has more issues with making it on their own than previous gens. I read losers are up 10% this generation anyway.

Of course drugs alone has made for many losers despite everything we were taught in school. All those don't do drugs..blah, blah campaigns, tv shows..etc and yet so many let it get the best of them. I just don't get it really. I did plenty of drugs as a youth and kept my priorities straight. Now meth is the rage and it's really screwing peoples lives up pretty bad. It can't be just stupidity, we were all taught about the dangers of drugs and how it ruins lives since elementary. Perhaps selfish desires or America's culture of "me, me, me" is to blame.
 
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mmntech

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I worked with a few guys at the car lot were losers. There was this one guy we used to gall Gaza, after the Jamaican street gang, not the Palestinian strip. He was about a year older than me. Nothing seriously wrong with him except for a total lack of ambition. He'd bitch about working there and how low they paid him. He'd say he was going back to school but the plans never seemed to materialize. Lazy ah heck. Used to catch him sleeping in the trucks, and he was notorious for sending our store filthy cars. Then he got me in trouble for doing the same thing, once. I was so pissed I didn't speak to him for half a year after that. Been over two years since I last saw him but I bet he's still working there. I'm almost tempted to phone and find out.

Another guy who I worked with is almost 40 with two kids and still works as a counter rep at the rental store making a dollar above minimum wage. He had a wild life in his youth and is now paying for it.

Then there's my mom's friend. Nice lady but she's a clueless bimbo. This lady lives with her daughter because she blew all the money she got in her divorce on clothes and junk. The daughter who owns the house is never there, because her boyfriend is under house arrest and can't leave his apartment. As bad as that is, the son just got had up for a DUI (not his first) and is facing jail time. Has to get his mum to drive him around. The daughter is my age and the son is a couple years older. So they should know better.
 

Markbnj

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I don't know anyone who is a _total_ loser, but I know one very talented guy who has completely wasted his life. This guy is an artist, amazingly talented, used to work in game production. Now he lives in a friend's living room and drinks like a fish all day. Nevertheless, I think he must have some winner in him somewhere. Just not sure when it will emerge.
 

BeeBoop

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A lot of people you meet in life dont make it and most people just like to fake it. You see this everyday at your local grocery store when some old lady bags your groceries or some old guy working at a fast food joint. What i want to hear are stories of those that did make it.
 

StinkyPinky

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Yeah I don't know a total loser but I also know a few people that have just wasted their life. One guy I was good friends with at school was usually the most gifted academically in the place. Sadly he just drifted after high school, never finished college, and last I saw was shacked up with some morbidly obese women with two step kids. He pumps gas for a living.

Another guy I was friends with at college flunked out and still lives with his mother at 34. His porn collection is so massive he has stacks and stacks of blu-rays. He basically trades porn with some guy in Denmark. That's his entire existence.
 

Exterous

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Unfortunately I have seen many - although recently less since my wife switched jobs. The sad part of it is that almost all have the ability to make their lives better but they can't see past their own shortcomings. They suffer from a complete lack of motivation driven by the 'I suck\Thats hard' mentality. You can only talk to them and try to guide them so much before it morphs into 'being pushy' and they close down. Still I gave it a go because that is what I think a good person should do. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Most I don't ever see again as we don't live in the area. I bump into one occasionally and if I'm not careful about what I tell her she'll make a comment like: 'I hate you for how good your life is.' and actually mean it.

What i want to hear are stories of those that did make it.

I know many of those too. Most recently there was this girl who almost failed out of HS because she simply stopped going. We are talking almost missed getting a HS diploma over a couple hours of school. She had some crazy mood swings too - we are talking going from calm to bat shit crazy and making verbal threats in under 30 seconds. She was dating this real looser and just drank their part time earnings away together and didn't really do anything. Didn't really expect her to make anything out of her life. Not really sure what happened to make the change but she ditched the guy, took classes at night while working during the day and now works very hard at her current job. She's been moving up the ladder very quickly and has found a (seemingly) very nice guy who is capable of holding down his own job.
 
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