Originally posted by: FacelessNobody
Well, it appears there's some hubub.
Normally, I would never reply again in this thread, especially after the flak I've received, but there's still a big lesson to be learned that's applicable to StormRider. IF he's the type who's willing to learn anything. IF this virgin thing is even a problem for him, anyway.
So, nobody cared much for what I posted. Big deal, being judged by faceless cyber-individuals isn't exactly gonna destroy my alredy over-inflated self-confidence. To simplify it, and use some of those English skills I was talking about, I said the wrong thing to the wrong people. My words were inappropriate for the given audience. StormRider is in the same bind. You can never expect to get decent help on the internet. People hide behind the anonymity of the internet, and in turn are impulsive and feel comfortable speaking before thinking. It's not the same in person. Red Dawn, JonB, Rainsford, whoever, are most likely all reasonable people if you sat down with them and had a conversation.
That aside, the bottom line is communication. With real people who you know, trust, and respect. This place, like any internet community, can be a cesspool.
^^I 2nd that!^^Originally posted by: powerMarkymark
Sure hope you get that first feel soon!
Originally posted by: welst10
Any ATOT lady nice enough to break his virginity? I've heard many women love to take guys' virginity.
Originally posted by: Klixxer
Originally posted by: StormRider
Originally posted by: tnitsuj
You aren't really 41 are you?
Unfortunately I really am a 41 year old virgin. I've never even dated. But rather than try to bum people out by being crying over my situation, I try to make it "funny". In some ways I think I am using the internet as a form of therapy. I can say things that pop up in my mind while remaining anonymous.
For example, I saw an article on CNN about how murderers would get lots of letters from girls and I just started a topic called, "To those that don't have girlfriends: Does it make you sad when you hear that murderers have girlfriends and you don't?"
I was watching Enterprise and I really did see part of T'Pol's butt crack so I started the topic, "I saw T'Pol's butt crack in last week's Enterprise... "
The way I grew up, I never was able to confide to anyone about girls. I just never talked about them to anyone. I always got the feeling that I wasn't supposed to. David Robinson said something in an interview that I could relate to. He said that he was at a party and they were gonna play spin the bottle. Then all the kids (who were white) looked around and said something like, "David isn't gonna play is he?" So, he felt like he didn't belong. Same with me. I tried to pretend I wasn't interested to avoid getting hurt or something. So, it's just refreshing for me to be able to blurt out whatever I'm thinking about when it comes to girls. To just have to freedom to say, "I think so-and-so is hot".
I know I have a juvenile sense of humor. I don't let it come out in real life. Only here. But let's face it, I'm stuck in my social development. Can't help it.
I don't really know what to say because you don't actually reveal much, like are you sad about not dating or don't care?
One thing that almost alway amazes me, ugly but somewhat muscular dirtbag is that girls will climb all over you if you just let them.
You don't put yourself in that situation, you put yourself down and out of that nohing good can come.
You simply need to get out there and be there, girls will come if you let them.
Originally posted by: Klixxer
Originally posted by: FacelessNobody
Well, it appears there's some hubub.
Normally, I would never reply again in this thread, especially after the flak I've received, but there's still a big lesson to be learned that's applicable to StormRider. IF he's the type who's willing to learn anything. IF this virgin thing is even a problem for him, anyway.
So, nobody cared much for what I posted. Big deal, being judged by faceless cyber-individuals isn't exactly gonna destroy my alredy over-inflated self-confidence. To simplify it, and use some of those English skills I was talking about, I said the wrong thing to the wrong people. My words were inappropriate for the given audience. StormRider is in the same bind. You can never expect to get decent help on the internet. People hide behind the anonymity of the internet, and in turn are impulsive and feel comfortable speaking before thinking. It's not the same in person. Red Dawn, JonB, Rainsford, whoever, are most likely all reasonable people if you sat down with them and had a conversation.
That aside, the bottom line is communication. With real people who you know, trust, and respect. This place, like any internet community, can be a cesspool.
So you won't get laid because you cannot find anyone good enough for you? That is what you pretty much said.
There is NO other way to read it.
You are just an narcissistic asshole who tries to apologize for being a narcissitic asshole, i find it quite pathetic and one day when you have found a woman tha "will do" don't be surprised if she turns you down and by then you have burnt your bridges.
My tip to you, get it while it is still hot.
OR a boyfriend, depending.Originally posted by: NFS4
Dude, get a girlfriend...STAT!
Originally posted by: aidanjm
OR a boyfriend, depending.Originally posted by: NFS4
Dude, get a girlfriend...STAT!
Originally posted by: StormRider
Unfortunately I really am a 41 year old virgin. I've never even dated. But rather than try to bum people out by being crying over my situation, I try to make it "funny". In some ways I think I am using the internet as a form of therapy. I can say things that pop up in my mind while remaining anonymous.
For example, I saw an article on CNN about how murderers would get lots of letters from girls and I just started a topic called, "To those that don't have girlfriends: Does it make you sad when you hear that murderers have girlfriends and you don't?"
I was watching Enterprise and I really did see part of T'Pol's butt crack so I started the topic, "I saw T'Pol's butt crack in last week's Enterprise... "
The way I grew up, I never was able to confide to anyone about girls. I just never talked about them to anyone. I always got the feeling that I wasn't supposed to. David Robinson said something in an interview that I could relate to. He said that he was at a party and they were gonna play spin the bottle. Then all the kids (who were white) looked around and said something like, "David isn't gonna play is he?" So, he felt like he didn't belong. Same with me. I tried to pretend I wasn't interested to avoid getting hurt or something. So, it's just refreshing for me to be able to blurt out whatever I'm thinking about when it comes to girls. To just have to freedom to say, "I think so-and-so is hot".
I know I have a juvenile sense of humor. I don't let it come out in real life. Only here. But let's face it, I'm stuck in my social development. Can't help it.
No, I'm not really sad about not dating. It's not that I don't care -- it's more like I've accepted my life as it is. When I was younger, I felt sad and angry about my life (the anger was because I felt like my mom was kind of undermining me in my social development). Now that I've made peace with my parents, I'm not really angry anymore.
I would probably be happier if I was in a relationship. A relationship where I could totally show myself to a woman and be accepted as I am -- with all my shortcomings. But I don't have the courage to do this yet -- maybe never. But even if I never have a relationship, I think I'll be okay with it. Really, the only time I get a little sad is when I sense people are feeling sorry for me.
I'd rather keep this thread light-hearted and joking around.