Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: mercanucaribe
NSF4, for a black guy you seem to have very little knowledge of derogatory terms for black people. Would you not mind if, for example, a parent of one of the white girls you dated called you a nappy head, big nosed, fat lipped darkie?
I know what nappy means. I know what n*gger means. I know that my excellent compatriot means, I know what porch monkey means. I know what Uncle Tom means.
Don't sit there and try to tell me what I do and do not know regarding terms.
I just don't take offense when someone says something stupid like nappy headed. I have bigger things to worry about than what someone who doesn't know me thinks of me. If someone called me a "n!gger," I wouldn't take offense, but I'd feel pity for the person that thinks that using the word would somehow make me feel bad or feel some undue harm. Quite the contrary, I'd see it more as weakness on their part to stoop to the lowest of the low just for the hell of it.
As for the "White girls that I have dated?" My GF is the first white girl that I have dated and I have been with her for 3 and a half years and have known her for almost eight.
And if she called me nappy-headed, big nosed fat lipped dork, I'd in turn tell her that her dad is a short, big-nosed Greek with crooked teeth. We'd laugh, then go make out.
Life is too short to get worked up over petty insults.