The real queston is...what are her thoughts on Dream Theater?
In all honesty, I've had good and bad experiences with getting to know people online. One female was a friend of a friend who I met at a wedding, only talked for a little while there, but I got to really know her just from chatting on line. We met up once when we were both home for a weekend (grew up in the same town) and then I went up to her place in NY for the weekend. It was...different. By most logical measurements we were compatible, same movies, TV shows, humour, etc., but in person everything was different. So I guess I'm saying that you should go forth with an open mind, because we tend to create a perception of someone through our online interaction, and it's probably not going to be correct when you finally meet.
But whatever, what do you have to lose? Unless she has a well in her basement that you might "fall" into. You'd do well to put the lotion on your skin, if you know what's good for you!