Dumped g/friend on The London Experiance

[Monkey muppet]

A few weeks ago , I decided to suprise my, at the time g/friend, by:

Hiring a very nice car to drive to London (3hr trip)
Booking a 5 star hotel (w' marbled on-suite, four poster bed, etc)
Booking Opera tickets at Her Majesty's Theatre Royal (box seats)
Table for two at a very nice Resturant
etc.

Well the time came yesturday to put that plan into action. Everthing went all OK untill we went out clubbing

guess what happened........?


updated:

she cheated on me

Didn't come back to hotel

Stayed around the blokes house and in London for a second night

Meanwhile I went on a date - which went well

Posted Video click here for vid[/quote] from which I thought she was Joking.

She wants the car - which I'm going to sell to her (with her stuff inside)

Her friend will only let her stay for one night as she is siding with me.

 

You pissed your pants?

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: jumpr
You pissed your pants?

No,

it wasn'st a n embarressing moment, guess again

 

[Monkey muppet]

well nobody cares then that my g/friend of living together for six months decided to fvck off with another bloke she and stayed the night around his

 

Wow, that's a sh!tty situation. But at least your pants stayed dry.

 

[Lonyo]

You forgot any money?
She dumped you?
You found out she wasn't a girl?

 

[jjones]

So this is a girlfriend? Sounds more like you were in the "friend zone". Either that or she really stepped on your nuts hard.

 

[tk149]

Sorry to hear that. You have to fvck her mom now.

 

[cavemanmoron]

Originally posted by: tk149
Sorry to hear that. You have to fvck her mom now.

yes Great idea!

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
well nobody cares then that my g/friend of living together for six months decided to fvck off with another bloke she and stayed the night around his

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

 

[Monkey muppet]

yeah thanks for the symthapy everyone

I can say that we weren't in the friend zone as we live together, bought a car together, go an holidays together and other stuff which normal persons do during evenings & and mornings (and cheaky lunch breaks).

Yes she did step on my nuts very hard - I can tell you when she comes back (if she comes back)- she isn't saying here, I've called a couple of her friends to see if they have any sofa space for her

 

[RaynorWolfcastle]

Originally posted by: tk149
Sorry to hear that. You have to fvck her mom now.

 

[KarenMarie]

OMG! That is terrible. I am really sorry for you.

If I ever did something like that I would have 24hours to get all my stuff out of the house, or the b/f would have a dumpster parked in front and all my stuff would go out the window. If he did it, he would not ever come home again, cause I would ensure he never ate with his own teeth ever again.

She needs to go.

I am sooooo sorry for you!!!

 

[asm0deus]

burn all her stuff now

edit: and get someone else to goto the opera with you

 

[aplefka]

That's balls and a half man, balls and a half.

Gotta love it when women still act like girls. I guess some females never change, even with age.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
OMG! That is terrible. I am really sorry for you.

If I ever did something like that I would have 24hours to get all my stuff out of the house, or the b/f would have a dumpster parked in front and all my stuff would go out the window. If he did it, he would not ever come home again, cause I would ensure he never ate with his own teeth ever again.

She needs to go.

I am sooooo sorry for you!!!

Thank you, I'm not in the stage yet where I can meet people face-to-face. I don't know what I should be doing, feeling, etc.

Options:

Laugh or I'll cry
Angry - throw stuff around
Chuck her stuff out
Tell her parents (very strict catholic parents - they will kick her arse)
Track down the geezer and chop his balls off.

The funny thing is as soon as I got back home. I fired up the comp and had to post.

The last text message I received from her:

"Dear Monkeymuppet, I chose to follow my heart. Don't b upset with me. I'm thankfull of everything you did for me. Hope you do better"


The follow the heart things is because she was having problems at work where she needed to make a decision and I said follow what you feel rather than what your head says because if you start thinknig about, you over-anaylize and make the wrong decision. I never though she would use my advise against me as a reason.

gggrrrrr!!!!!!!!!

 

[Red Dawn]

WTF and you let that happen? It's one thing if it was a date but your Old Lady taking off with some other swinging dick? Man any guy with any sort of self esteem would have kicked some ass (the dudes) and then sent that bitch packing.

What they did was totally disrespect you. If I did that to some dude I would expect to have to throw down with him. At least if they we doing it on the side they would be showing you a little respect by trying to hide it. Out in the open is like them saying "You ain't sh!t and we don't give a fsck what you think or how you look to others"

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: asm0deus
burn all her stuff now

edit: and get someone else to goto the opera with you

We saw the opera before the meal and the club

I forgot to mention the suprise was for her birthday and I bought her a nice little DV camera to record the weekend.

I've just worked out in the last couple of days I spent about £500 on this suprise

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
WTF and you let that happen? It's one thing if it was a date but your Old Lady taking off with some other swinging dick? Man any guy with any sort of self esteem would have kicked some ass (the dudes) and then sent that bitch packing.

What they did was totally disrespect you. If I did that to some dude I would expect to have to throw down with him. At least if they we doing it on the side they would be showing you a little respect by trying to hide it. Out in the open is like them saying "You ain't sh!t and we don't give a fsck what you think or how you look to others"

I'm over six foot (about 190-ish) but very slim - he was the same hight and build like a brick sh1t house. If I even looked at this guy funny he would've kicked my ass easily (I can hold myself in a fight fairly OK - but this guy was too much to even consider)

 

[CraigRT]

what a freaking loser... that is pathetic.. burn her house down..... er, i mean.... don't hold back on your feelings with her. dump her huge or something!

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: asm0deus
burn all her stuff now

edit: and get someone else to goto the opera with you

We saw the opera before the meal and the club

I forgot to mention the suprise was for her birthday and I bought her a nice little DV camera to record the weekend.

I've just worked out in the last couple of days I spent about £500 on this suprise

A five-star hotel in London could eat up over half your budget. There is no way you could have bought a DV cam, opera tix, hire a car, and include a meal (even at McDonald's).

I call shens.

 

[KarenMarie]

MonkeyPuppet....

3 hours from London... puts you about where, in the UK?

As far as the g/f... hmmm.. seems like you have a lot invested there... time and financial ties... but I would not allow that to make you take her back. The following the heart thing is a bunch of bull... how in the world can she claim that her heart told her to pick up some guy in a club and go off with him for the night? How can she blame her heart for making her a slut for one, and a heartless b!tch for treating you that way in addition. It is a lie... anyone who would ever behave as such is better off gone... you don't need it and although it hurts like he!!... console youself with the fact that you are above it and at least you are not married.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: CraigRT
what a freaking loser... that is pathetic.. burn her house down..... er, i mean.... don't hold back on your feelings with her. dump her huge or something!

and what will i acheive by doing that (she is definatly going, I'm very tempted to change the locks so she has to face me before she picks up her stuff)

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
WTF and you let that happen? It's one thing if it was a date but your Old Lady taking off with some other swinging dick? Man any guy with any sort of self esteem would have kicked some ass (the dudes) and then sent that bitch packing.

What they did was totally disrespect you. If I did that to some dude I would expect to have to throw down with him. At least if they we doing it on the side they would be showing you a little respect by trying to hide it. Out in the open is like them saying "You ain't sh!t and we don't give a fsck what you think or how you look to others"

I'm over six foot (about 190-ish) but very slim - he was the same hight and build like a brick sh1t house. If I even looked at this guy funny he would've kicked my ass easily (I can hold myself in a fight fairly OK - but this guy was too much to even consider)

Dude in situations like that it's not necessary or even expected of you to fight fair. A Pool Cue or a long neck bottle to the side of his head would have been consider adequate retaliation for his offense.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: asm0deus
burn all her stuff now

edit: and get someone else to goto the opera with you

We saw the opera before the meal and the club

I forgot to mention the suprise was for her birthday and I bought her a nice little DV camera to record the weekend.

I've just worked out in the last couple of days I spent about £500 on this suprise

A five-star hotel in London could eat up over half your budget. There is no way you could have bought a DV cam, opera tix, hire a car, and include a meal (even at McDonald's).

I call shens.

DV cam: £105 (scan.co.uk one day offer half price)
Car hire: £120 weekend hire (through work - 33% discount)
Five star hotel: £280 (Octopuss travel - advance booking 25% discount)
Opera: £50.50 each seat
Meal: £40 - family friend (sisters boyfriends, Auntie) is the chef there