Dumped g/friend on The London Experiance

[ragazzo]

be mature about it. just grab the money and walk away.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: ragazzo
be mature about it. just grab the money and walk away.

I live 5 miles away from her friends house which is where she is now

 

[rsd]

Hi Monkey muppet, sorry to hear about this ordeal you are going through, as I can imagine it must be pretty tough.

Not to pry, but quickly glancing you never seemed to explain how this unfolded? Did you turn your back and suddenly some other guy was hitting on her, or did she just take off and do her thing? Not that it really matters I guess, but I was just curious as seeing if you are "together" and you were at a club with each other, I can't imagine just some random guy hitting on her with you next to her..but maybe I am being naive. You don't need to get into it if you are uncomfortable..just seemed odd to me.

 

[ragazzo]

i sleepwalk 5 miles and wake up feeling refreshed

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: rsd
Hi Monkey muppet, sorry to hear about this ordeal you are going through, as I can imagine it must be pretty tough.

Not to pry, but quickly glancing you never seemed to explain how this unfolded? Did you turn your back and suddenly some other guy was hitting on her, or did she just take off and do her thing? Not that it really matters I guess, but I was just curious as seeing if you are "together" and you were at a club with each other, I can't imagine just some random guy hitting on her with you next to her..but maybe I am being naive. You don't need to get into it if you are uncomfortable..just seemed odd to me.

OK the situation, she wanted to go to London to see some of her 'friends' (people who she has meet of the internet in the past). I didn't feel very comfortable when she did this the first time. So she said why don't you come with me so I can show you that you have nothing to be worried or jealous about.

It just so happened that that weekend was two days away from our six month aniversary, so I thought it would be a good idea to celebrate with all the stuff I mentioned earlier.

With regards to what happened on the Sat evening. I was there with her all the time. Slowly, as the evening progresses she got more and more 'friendly' with the people she invited.

Well friends turned to flirty, flirty turned to one guy, body grinding dancing, kissing and slow dancing whilst I was less than 5 metres away.

So I said "Now I know what you get up to in London I know that you don't respect me - see you later"

She didn't come back to the hotel. I saw her the next morning after I said "If you want your stuff you better contact me before I leave for bristol" well guess who was there with her.......yup you guessed right - that bloke.

She stayed in London again with him on Sunday night as well, during which I packed up her stuff - went on a date and contacted her friends to let them know what she did.

 

Originally posted by: tk149
Sorry to hear that. You have to fvck her mom now.

:thumbsup:

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: buck

Originally posted by: tk149
Sorry to hear that. You have to fvck her mom now.

:thumbsup:

hahahahhahahahahahahahah....

I just received a text message "could you pick me up from the station please"

um............how about a big, fat, and unresounding NO you filthy, disrespecting ho

 

[rsd]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: buck

Originally posted by: tk149
Sorry to hear that. You have to fvck her mom now.

:thumbsup:

hahahahhahahahahahahahah....

I just received a text message "could you pick me up from the station please"

um............how about a big, fat, and unresounding NO you filthy, disrespecting ho

Haha...I would seriousl cut all ties from her and refuse to even acknowledge her. That is utter garbage what she did, especially the way you described it went down.

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
Update:

Just got a text message saying she is back in Bristol at 6pm and asking if she can buy her share of the car off me:

This is going a lot smoother than I thought...great for me, I load up the car with her stuff, hand over the keys for cash.

No payment = no keys & no stuff.

Now my issue is as follows:

I don't think I can talk to her without swearing and loosing my temper. But would it be beter to show no emotion, act like an adult and sort out the finances (the latter is going to be very difficult as I'm emotionaly unstable ATM)

work out all finance stuff first. then scream and explode all you want.

 

[Ranger X]

Tell her you're going to pick her up and never show up. That way, she won't call someone else to pick her up until hours later.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: rsd

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: buck

Originally posted by: tk149
Sorry to hear that. You have to fvck her mom now.

:thumbsup:

hahahahhahahahahahahahah....

I just received a text message "could you pick me up from the station please"

um............how about a big, fat, and unresounding NO you filthy, disrespecting ho

Haha...I would seriousl cut all ties from her and refuse to even acknowledge her. That is utter garbage what she did, especially the way you described it went down.

OK, I've thought about this a bit more - I'm going to be an adult about this. Work out all financial ties, find out why she treated me like that on Saturday evening. I think it would be easier for me to move on if I know some truth (I doubt she will tell me honestly why - but I can read body language very well).

 

[tranceport]

I want 30 seconds back...

 

[marcello]

Originally posted by: tranceport
I want 30 seconds back...

You also want respect and power, but you're not getting any of them.

 

[Acanthus]

Originally posted by: aplefka
Do the changing of the locks. That'd be teh sweet revengez0r. And videotape it when she comes back.

hahahaha id love to see that!!

 

[Gulzakar]

wait, this isn't the first problem you've had, right?

this is the same girl that will get her ugly ass sent back to the Eastern Block, right?

 

[mwtgg]

Originally posted by: amoeba

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
no offense man, but shes not that good looking. you can do better.

36-28-32 says other wise

isn't 28 a bit thick in the waist?

Sure, if you're a selfish asshole with ideals that are too demanding and chauvinistic.

Not every woman is a supermodel, and it's foolish to think that.

 

[Monkey muppet]

latest update:

With Her stuff in the car, I picked up her friend from work as a thankyou for allowing my ex to stay there for a night. I had a good chat with her: She said "what a bitch - you deserve better, hell if I wasn't with my geezer I'll be snapping you up in an instant".

I then picked up my ex to give her the car, I asked "why did you do that on saturday night"

her responce "I wasn't being honest with you"

um.....a bit lost for words now ...."I wasn't being honest with you" is an understatement of the fvcking century.

Well she is now out of my life: I'm picking up the money for her share of the bills and money for the car from her friend tomorrow.

I still can't beleive how calm I'm being about this - Possibly due to having ATOT to vent to - thank you everyone for your support an advice.

 

[J0hnny]

Holy cow...dude, that's some fuked up $hit. I don't think I would even come close to handling it as calmly as you did.

It would have been an all out fist fight with the mofo who stole her away. I'm 190lbs, 6', fairly slim and I wouldn't hesitate to take on a 250lb built like a brick wall basturd if it happened to me.

 

[asm0deus]

this thread stands as further proof that video games > women

 

[Stark]

tought break.

sounds like you're better off without her. now quit shagging spending your money on eastern european tramps!!

 

[Geekbabe]

Isn't this the same woman you posted about several months ago? She's basically just been using you all along,you just couldn't/wouldn't see it.Sounds like she has bigger fish in the sea and tired of gaming you and just decided to hit you square upside the head with it in a big way that you finally couldn't ignore.

All that said, it makes me wonder, some women give so much and get crumbs given back, others are handed the world and they throw it away like yesterday's newspaper. The world is a strange place.

 

[Gulzakar]

...$uckin A...

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
latest update:

I then picked up my ex to give her the car, I asked "why did you do that on saturday night"

her responce "I wasn't being honest with you"

um.....a bit lost for words now ...."I wasn't being honest with you" is an understatement of the fvcking century.

OK, so let me get this straight. She's telling you that she's been cheating on you for awhile with this guy whenever she goes to London, and that she planned this whole thing (you going to London to meet the people she hangs out with) to SHOW you that she's been cheating on you instead of TELLING you that she's been cheating on you.

My friend, you are one strong-willed motherfvcker. I swear to God I might have snapped and shoved the bitch out of the car if she told me that (and yes, I'd be FLYING down the road when I did it). THEN I would have shagged her mother, taped it, and played it for her in the hospital while she was still in traction and couldn't move.

But that's just me. As for you, you seem to have women lining up to take her place, so just forget about it and find a better replacement.

 

[Adul]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
Update:

Just got a text message saying she is back in Bristol at 6pm and asking if she can buy her share of the car off me:

This is going a lot smoother than I thought...great for me, I load up the car with her stuff, hand over the keys for cash.

No payment = no keys & no stuff.

Now my issue is as follows:

I don't think I can talk to her without swearing and loosing my temper. But would it be beter to show no emotion, act like an adult and sort out the finances (the latter is going to be very difficult as I'm emotionaly unstable ATM)

beng cold heart and emotionless could prove more effective and uncomfortable for her

works for me

 

[Balt]

She's a heartless bitch and you're better off without her.

That probably doesn't make you feel much better, but it's true.