Dumped g/friend on The London Experiance

[Monkey muppet]

This is probably going to be the last post on this topic from me now - 'cos it's now beginning to emotionaly hit me (I've smoked two packets od cigs just trying to stay calm), I can't ride my motorbike 'cos I know I'll red line it through anger (it's a very, very, very fast bike).

I've got work in less than 8hrs and I havn't slept or eaten for over 30hrs

I've been taken for a ride: Mentaly, emotionaly, physicaly, and monatory.

It's so hard to sleep when there isn't someone sharing the same bed, the bachelours life isn't for me - I can't be dealing with the hassle of finding a new girl.

This will be be a starting block for the start of a new life: start doing the things I used to year ago: Yoga, martial arts, downhill mountain-biking, squash tornaments and reading. I'm going to try and stop smoking 'cos my mouth now feels like a badger crawled up in there and died

 

[Ranger X]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
It's so hard to sleep when there isn't someone sharing the same bed, the bachelours life isn't for me - I can't be dealing with the hassle of finding a new girl.

Why are you so dependent on her? Poon must be like oxygen to you.

Everyone goes through this after a breakup but face the facts ... isn't it better that you found out she's a cheater rather than finding out after a longer relationship or possibly after marriage? She did you a favor. Don't show her your weak side and just move on. If that beeyatch comes crawling back, don't take her back or you'll regret it.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

 

[thirdlegstump]

Dang son. Dat B messed up yo. I B straight wit da biotch n give her sum sh*t 2 think aboutz yo.

 

[thejackal1]

Originally posted by: deathkoba
Dang son. Dat B messed up yo. I B straight wit da biotch n give her sum sh*t 2 think aboutz yo.

Yea.....What he said.

 

[Nick5324]

Originally posted by: deathkoba
Dang son. Dat B messed up yo. I B straight wit da biotch n give her sum sh*t 2 think aboutz yo.

:disgust:

 

[Ranger X]

BTW, even from the brief video it, you two do not sound like a couple.

 

[bobalong]

Dump the little foreign slag mate!

Sorry - I know that sounded harsh, no offence intended, but you know what they say about leopards & spots...

I hate to say it - but I think you're being taken for a ride. Get uninvolved NOW before it's too late & she's got her great Aunt sleeping in your bathroom!!!
(That was meant to make you chuckle by the way!)

But really, whatever she thinks/says, she knows how you feel & still...
i) lives with you, eats your food, spends your money
ii) disregards your feelings
iii) won't change her wiley ways
iv) is happy to use you for emotional support & whatever else she chooses to use you for

... sounds like you got the bum end of the deal if you ask me, DUMP HER
- love isn't always worth jumping through hoops of fire for mate, especially if it's not reciprocated.

 

[Nebor]

Originally posted by: mwtgg

Originally posted by: amoeba

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
no offense man, but shes not that good looking. you can do better.

36-28-32 says other wise

isn't 28 a bit thick in the waist?

Sure, if you're a selfish asshole with ideals that are too demanding and chauvinistic.

Not every woman is a supermodel, and it's foolish to think that.

The evidence shows us that thinner women are far less likely to cheat. Plus they're far more attractive. And they look better in the kitchen, making my dinner.

 

[txxxx]

Originally posted by: Nebor

Originally posted by: mwtgg

Originally posted by: amoeba

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
no offense man, but shes not that good looking. you can do better.

36-28-32 says other wise

isn't 28 a bit thick in the waist?

Sure, if you're a selfish asshole with ideals that are too demanding and chauvinistic.

Not every woman is a supermodel, and it's foolish to think that.

The evidence shows us that thinner women are far less likely to cheat. Plus they're far more attractive. And they look better in the kitchen, making my dinner.

Yet another strong moment Nebor...

 

[y2kc]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
This is probably going to be the last post on this topic from me now - 'cos it's now beginning to emotionaly hit me (I've smoked two packets od cigs just trying to stay calm), I can't ride my motorbike 'cos I know I'll red line it through anger (it's a very, very, very fast bike).

I've got work in less than 8hrs and I havn't slept or eaten for over 30hrs

I've been taken for a ride: Mentaly, emotionaly, physicaly, and monatory.

It's so hard to sleep when there isn't someone sharing the same bed, the bachelours life isn't for me - I can't be dealing with the hassle of finding a new girl.

This will be be a starting block for the start of a new life: start doing the things I used to year ago: Yoga, martial arts, downhill mountain-biking, squash tornaments and reading. I'm going to try and stop smoking 'cos my mouth now feels like a badger crawled up in there and died

sorry to hear about your situation. i'll be honest, i've never heard of such a humiliating dumping in my life. you're handling it really well but it sounds like you're starting to grieve a bit. stay calm and grab a hold of some perspective before you get to down about it. remember, this is not a reflection on you but on her.

karma is merciless.

 

[bobalong]

I notice you mention her 'friend' a lot.

Do you have pics?

 

[Nebor]

Originally posted by: txxxx

Originally posted by: Nebor

Originally posted by: mwtgg

Originally posted by: amoeba

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
no offense man, but shes not that good looking. you can do better.

36-28-32 says other wise

isn't 28 a bit thick in the waist?

Sure, if you're a selfish asshole with ideals that are too demanding and chauvinistic.

Not every woman is a supermodel, and it's foolish to think that.

The evidence shows us that thinner women are far less likely to cheat. Plus they're far more attractive. And they look better in the kitchen, making my dinner.

Yet another strong moment Nebor...

And a strong moment for your sarcasm o'meter. Well, sorta.

 

[Koing]

That is tough dude.

Bristol IS NOT 3HRS from London. 2.5hrs or 140minutes but only 3hrs if your driving seriously slow...

Deciding to fight the guy isn't a good idea. If you seriously hurt him you get busted HARD. Doing something crazy to her NO MATTER HOW good it would feel is not smart also. Pushing her out of a moving car would have been crazy and more then likely PRISON time. And time for WHAT? Losing a few moments and kicking her out of a moving car? Wreckless.

Koing

 

[Monkey muppet]

Right then; I've just back from work, and it was my most productive day EVER!!!!!

At home and I'm running around sorting things out. Dealing with all the small little things which I've been overlooking for ages and I feel great!!!!


Full of energy, but still relaxed.

Reading two books at the same time and still not being lost: The Eternal Champion by Michael Moorcock & Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden .

 

[tk149]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
Right then; I've just back from work, and it was my most productive day EVER!!!!!

At home and I'm running around sorting things out. Dealing with all the small little things which I've been overlooking for ages and I feel great!!!!


Full of energy, but still relaxed.

Reading two books at the same time and still not being lost: The Eternal Champion by Michael Moorcock & Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden .

Glad to hear you're feeling better. But given what you said about lack of sleep, maybe you'd better have a nice lie down instead.

Good book, but I liked Moorcock's Elric series better. The Eternal Champion was kind of depressing, which is probably not something you need right now.

 

[Monkey muppet]

I just love the description of the Eldren

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: Koing
That is tough dude.

Bristol IS NOT 3HRS from London. 2.5hrs or 140minutes but only 3hrs if your driving seriously slow...

Deciding to fight the guy isn't a good idea. If you seriously hurt him you get busted HARD. Doing something crazy to her NO MATTER HOW good it would feel is not smart also. Pushing her out of a moving car would have been crazy and more then likely PRISON time. And time for WHAT? Losing a few moments and kicking her out of a moving car? Wreckless.

Koing

yeah but a good lawyer might have been able to argue temporary insanity, due to the emotional trauma...i probably would have tried to sodomize him with a pool cue...and besides if dude has the balls to do that right in front of her bf...he should expect it

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: quakefiend420

Originally posted by: Koing
That is tough dude.

Bristol IS NOT 3HRS from London. 2.5hrs or 140minutes but only 3hrs if your driving seriously slow...

Deciding to fight the guy isn't a good idea. If you seriously hurt him you get busted HARD. Doing something crazy to her NO MATTER HOW good it would feel is not smart also. Pushing her out of a moving car would have been crazy and more then likely PRISON time. And time for WHAT? Losing a few moments and kicking her out of a moving car? Wreckless.

Koing

yeah but a good lawyer might have been able to argue temporary insanity, due to the emotional trauma...i probably would have tried to sodomize him with a pool cue...and besides if dude has the balls to do that right in front of her bf...he should expect it

Why do you always people go after the bloke - don't forget is was her who initiated

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: quakefiend420

Originally posted by: Koing
That is tough dude.

Bristol IS NOT 3HRS from London. 2.5hrs or 140minutes but only 3hrs if your driving seriously slow...

Deciding to fight the guy isn't a good idea. If you seriously hurt him you get busted HARD. Doing something crazy to her NO MATTER HOW good it would feel is not smart also. Pushing her out of a moving car would have been crazy and more then likely PRISON time. And time for WHAT? Losing a few moments and kicking her out of a moving car? Wreckless.

Koing

yeah but a good lawyer might have been able to argue temporary insanity, due to the emotional trauma...i probably would have tried to sodomize him with a pool cue...and besides if dude has the balls to do that right in front of her bf...he should expect it

Why do you always people go after the bloke - don't forget is was her who initiated

cause thats disrespect...if he didnt know she was with you...thats one thing...otherwise, he should know better

 

[Monkey muppet]

I'm gonig to put a spanner in the works and throw around a theory:

I beleive this was pre-planned: She knew the guy from a previous visit to London. She probably didn't have the nearve to tell me to my face that things weren't worknig out - so by doing this in front of my face would mean that she wouldn't have to say anything (actions speak louder than words).

Three days on from the event - I'm fine, except for needing to be very tired before going to bed.
I lot of people have come to my aid and lent me their shoulder (including everyone here on OT). which has help at lot.

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
I'm gonig to put a spanner in the works and throw around a theory:

I beleive this was pre-planned: She knew the guy from a previous visit to London. She probably didn't have the nearve to tell me to my face that things weren't worknig out - so by doing this in front of my face would mean that she wouldn't have to say anything (actions speak louder than words).

Three days on from the event - I'm fine, except for needing to be very tired before going to bed.
I lot of people have come to my aid and lent me their shoulder (including everyone here on OT). which has help at lot.

in that case...you need to slap her as well

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
I'm gonig to put a spanner in the works and throw around a theory:

I beleive this was pre-planned: She knew the guy from a previous visit to London. She probably didn't have the nearve to tell me to my face that things weren't worknig out - so by doing this in front of my face would mean that she wouldn't have to say anything (actions speak louder than words).

Three days on from the event - I'm fine, except for needing to be very tired before going to bed.
I lot of people have come to my aid and lent me their shoulder (including everyone here on OT). which has help at lot.

It takes a real POS to plan to do such a thing.She's the type of woman who brings her unsuspecting husband on Jerry Springer to tell him his kids aren't really his.Be glad she tired of the game and you got out now.

Remember, this says what a lousy, no good person she is.. it has no reflerction on you or your value. I know about ultimate betrayls, for what it's worth you have my total empathy.

 

[bobalong]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
I'm gonig to put a spanner in the works and throw around a theory:

I beleive this was pre-planned: She knew the guy from a previous visit to London. She probably didn't have the nearve to tell me to my face that things weren't worknig out - so by doing this in front of my face would mean that she wouldn't have to say anything (actions speak louder than words).

Three days on from the event - I'm fine, except for needing to be very tired before going to bed.
I lot of people have come to my aid and lent me their shoulder (including everyone here on OT). which has help at lot.

she is slowly going to be carved up in the "special kind of hell".

 

[rezinn]

Screw that bitch. Get your money and run. Stay in contact with all her friends if you can, that will make it harder on her.

 

[loic2003]

Yeah don't bother doing anything with the guy, it's not his fault at all. It's 100% the ex's. If some chick came up to you in a club, you wouldn't interrogate her as to whether she has a fellar currently, would you?

Women can be nasty pieces of work. Men are given a bad light and are seen to be the most common cheaters, but I think that the percentages are levelling out. Blokes are more honest with each other too, women can be so devious and sneaky. Anyway, good luck with everything. I find doing things for myself and making myself a better person (working out, doing charitable things, achieving stuff) makes me feel a whole load better after any kind of a breakup.