Is there some easy way to pick it up and will I reach some kind of gaming nirvana when I do, or is it actually overhyped?
Thanks for help
NO. EVE is not "easy" by definition. Nothing in EVE is fast or easy. If you want fast and easy, take your ship, slap on some mods on it and go to your nearest 0.4 sector. When you go through the gate, casually proceed to the nearest asteroid belt. I'm sure someone will be happy to show you exactly what EVE is all about. ; )
On a serious note though, I wouldn't say joining a corp is helpful. Most corps are lame, and their members stupid idiots. How they are able to play such a complicated game with such low IQ is beyond me. Best way to learn is by doing and reading guides. There are mining guides, PvP guides, trading guides, you name it...
You can also try EVE Online forums. But be ready to filter the replies you will get. Most people who will reply are evil, angry, heartless jerks. But a few replies will always be helpful. But even those replies, you must filter them out too, because heartless jerks will send you do your death with "helpful" replies such as "if you want to learn the game quickly and effectively, go to 0.0".
EVE now has some very good in-game guides. Just go to help and follow the tutorials. You will learn a lot from them.
Be ready to get get grieved a lot. EVE is for people that can turn their anger and frustration into positive force and drive for success. If you dwell on negative emotions or events do not play EVE. It is the most unique game that essentially models real life with many of its dynamics. You can really learn a lot about just how cruel and disgusting people can be, and just how little everyone really cares about you or whether you live or die. A certain someone in EVE made someone else commit suicide in real life with his words. If that doesn't make you ponder about what sort of a game EVE is, and what sort of people play it, there must be something wrong with you.
For me, every day in EVE is a very educational experience. I learned not to despair about various things, and not to take certain events and people seriously. I learned to be self sufficient, and look for solutions to my problems instead of screaming for help when I am lost or confused. The lessons I learn drive me in real life every day.
Oh, and fuck Mittani, GoonFleet, and any goon that reads this thread.