Ever feel completely crushed...

[platinumike]

my car broke down, on the job and my manager was asking me"dont you have any friends to lend you a car" and it hit me harder than ever. Iam feeling like absolutely nothing right now. I have no friends out there that would really help me in times of need. My car is breaking down every few months or so. The friends i did have, moved away. Recently i've been going through each day really confident and feeling great, because i had a date with a beautifull girl, but I've been trying to dig deeper within myself and strengthen the inner me. I thought ihad but everything i was working on within myself has been stumped to nothing, like i have to start over again. I feel like i need to move away somewhere and start a new life. Anyways thanks for reading, I at least got my pops whos gonna help me fix the car problem.

 

[MrKneecap]

Stick with it, everything has a way of working out.

 

[HN]

um, your manager's a dck

 

[HappyPuppy]

Chin up, Bucko. The vast majority of the human race has it far worse than you do. If you have a dad who loves you and is willing to help then you are wealthy. Friends come and go but family is forever.

 

[amdhunter]

Originally posted by: platinumike
my car broke down, on the job and my manager was asking me"dont you have any friends to lend you a car" and it hit me harder than ever. Iam feeling like absolutely nothing right now. I have no friends out there that would really help me in times of need. My car is breaking down every few months or so. The friends i did have, moved away. Recently i've been going through each day really confident and feeling great, because i had a date with a beautifull girl, but I've been trying to dig deeper within myself and strengthen the inner me. I thought ihad but everything i was working on within myself has been stumped to nothing, like i have to start over again. I feel like i need to move away somewhere and start a new life. Anyways thanks for reading, I at least got my pops whos gonna help me fix the car problem.

TPAD..?

 

[Sheepathon]

Drugs are the solution.

 

[Rudee]

No matter how bad things get there are people out there in worse situations who would gladly change places with you. You'll be fine.

 

[platinumike]

thanks guys, I was hoping this would get some replies. Really appreciate them all except the drug one and the tpad..i dont understand what ya mean. I think i need to reframe my train of thought, cause right now iam at level 1. I need to make a strong foundation of my innerself right now.

 

[jerryjg]

Chher up. things could be worse. what about that guy who got run over by a steamroller the other day. I'm sure he felt completely crushed.

 

[Koing]

Chin up and try and make new friends? Join some clubs or so some voluntary work.

:thumbsup:

I hope things start looking up for you and you feel better about things.

Koing

 

[RichUK]

Originally posted by: Sheepathon
Drugs are the solution.

:shocked:

 

[jaysgirl]

We all feel that way sometimes. It's weird how one offhand comment can open up a wound and cut you down. But this feeling will pass. Atleast you have a cool dad!!

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

Any other issues with the boss or is this it?

 

[pyonir]

Moving to a new place and starting over won't help. I've done that and I'm still in the same situation.

 

[dirtboy]

All my friends have jobs and I'm sure wouldn't loan me their car to use on the job. Sounds like you need AAA and a rental car.

 

[IBuyUFO]

You want to move and start a new life? But look at it this way. You have no friends where you are so considered yourself moved. Now go out and make some friends. Go with your co-workers and eat some hot steaming pho for lunch!

 

[Maetryx]

If you want to be *really* grounded, read an introduction to philosophy textbook and figure out which worldview you have.

 

[platinumike]

Thanks a bunch for the replies guys!! Ya the few friends i did have until they moved away, either come to town every now and then, and we just do stuff, like sports,movies,etc. and that would be every few weeks or so. IT never gets deeper than just activities. You guys are right moving away wont change anything either, just the same problem in a different setting. Ya this isnt the only problem with this manager, the guy is a horrible slob, and has me doing EVERY part required of his position, while he sits on the pc. I click with some of my co-workers but they are all into heavy substance abuse, like acid,ecstascy,etc. Now that i think of it, every friend i've ever had recently has done drugs.

 

[skim milk]

that has been the story of my college years....thankfully I moved away in the middle of it hoping for new beginning and a new start

 

[MrsBugi]

Moving away and starting a new life is a drastic move, but a distant possibility.

Maybe there are deeper issues. Have you considered therapy?

 

[sharkeeper]

Stay the hell away from those big hydraulic powered watertight doors! They'll crush for shore!

 

[beer]

Originally posted by: jerryjg
Chher up. things could be worse. what about that guy who got run over by a steamroller the other day. I'm sure he felt completely crushed.

best...response...eva4

 

[Yossarian]

don't you have any real friends whose shoulder you could cry on instead of boring us?

 

1) Fix your car with your dad
2) Have a beer with your dad
3) Tell your boss that your personal life is none of his business
4) Smile, because you've got it better than many other people.

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: Yossarian
don't you have any real friends whose shoulder you could cry on instead of boring us?

Will you be my real friend? PM me your email address and phone number. I'll call ASAP.