Ever have an online friend blow you off because you aren't "commiting" to the relationship?

[dug777]

nevar...

 

[alkemyst]

i am cool with it...but it's just nuts to me that people put so much into something that's nothing.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: Landroval
She wants you and apparently does not see herself as a "friend" -- so her loss

Yeah, that's what I get out of it.

 

[CRXican]

that kinda freaky

I've been talking to this one chick for a long time and we joke about sexual stuff quite often

However, we'd never claim to know each other or know what's best for each other, that's just kinda freaky. She needs a break from the computer lovin.

 

[ggnl]

About 8 years ago I met some dude while playing Battletech on AOL. We would hang out in chat rooms and do all the silly sh!t kids did on AOL back then.

The dude gradually started to get kind of weird. He was always online, and if I got on and didn't talk to him he would get pissed. I coundn't take the stalking and eventually just made new screen names to get away from him.

 

[scorpmatt]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: trinketsummoner
Its probably a 40 year old fat trucker guy.

with a CB handle of Rusty Nail :laugh:

that movie was so predictable

 

Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
see sig

Talk about irony!

Originally posted by: alkemyst
No we had met while I was travelling...agreed to keep in touch. Exchanged IM's...I was trying to get her to come back to my place at the time, but she said if I lived there it would be different, but knowing there would be no possibility for more than a couple nights no.

We would chat a lot when I was dating, then I met my wife and she disappeared for a while, but started coming online again all the time.

I knew that there was more to this story.

No, she isn't psychotic. You're just a confused man--even though you would like to think that you aren't! And you often have trouble communicating your message to others. You probably caused her more confusion and inadvertently misled her. You know, it's hard to suddenly turn off feelings for someone.

P.S. Is your current wife the same Japanese woman? I remember reading a recent post of yours where you were already complaining about her "laziness". You didn't seem to respect her and sounded like you were losing your patience. So maybe this "online friend" (a misleading description of her since you met her while traveling) is/was right?

 

[Pepsei]

see, this is like a game for them... for some people they play world of warcraft. but this is reality, where you gain exp and levels by the number of people you chat with.

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: trinketsummoner
Its probably a 40 year old fat trucker guy.

bingo

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: DearQT

I knew that there was more to this story.

No, she isn't psychotic. You're just a confused man--even though you would like to think that you aren't! And you often have trouble communicating your message to others. You probably caused her more confusion and inadvertently misled her. You know, it's hard to suddenly turn off feelings for someone.

P.S. Is your current wife the same Japanese woman? I remember reading a recent post of yours where you were already complaining about her "laziness". You didn't seem to respect her and sounded like you were losing your patience. So maybe this "online friend" (a misleading description of her since you met her while traveling) is/was right?

huh...I met this chick as single you idiot, I said that. Like almost 4 years ago. I told her I was just passing through, not looking for a g/f, but if anything happened it happens.

I said my wife is lazy? I don't think that...she does chase a lot of things I wouldn't waste my time on, but that is her deal.

Pay attention, instead of trying to stab someone.

I am not upset or hurt by any of this, I just think its odd.

 

[NoToRiOuS1]

Originally posted by: Tiamat
i say you got it lucky!

a messed up chick not allowing you to talk to her? The world couldnt be any more ideal! Really gotta hate the messed up chicks that make you into their emotional tampons.

lol VERY well put.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: faboloso112

Originally posted by: Tiamat
i say you got it lucky!

a messed up chick not allowing you to talk to her? The world couldnt be any more ideal! Really gotta hate the messed up chicks that make you into their emotional tampons.

lol VERY well put.

is that why some guys are red headed?

 

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: DearQT

I knew that there was more to this story.

No, she isn't psychotic. You're just a confused man--even though you would like to think that you aren't! And you often have trouble communicating your message to others. You probably caused her more confusion and inadvertently misled her. You know, it's hard to suddenly turn off feelings for someone.

P.S. Is your current wife the same Japanese woman? I remember reading a recent post of yours where you were already complaining about her "laziness". You didn't seem to respect her and sounded like you were losing your patience. So maybe this "online friend" (a misleading description of her since you met her while traveling) is/was right?

huh...I met this chick as single you idiot, I said that. Like almost 4 years ago. I told her I was just passing through, not looking for a g/f, but if anything happened it happens.

I said my wife is lazy? I don't think that...she does chase a lot of things I wouldn't waste my time on, but that is her deal.

Pay attention, instead of trying to stab someone.

I am not upset or hurt by any of this, I just think its odd.

I apologize. You did not say "lazy", but you did describe your wife as "a coward". That is not a kind word to use on someone you care about. Anyway, my point for bringing that up was to suggest that maybe this woman was correct about your relationship with your wife?

Huh? Stab you? Would I want to stab you if I didn't even know you? What would be my motive if I haven't even established a relationship with you? Do I know you personally? Am I missing something here? :/ Why do you use such strong words to describe situations or individuals? There goes your communication again!

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: DearQT
I apologize. You did not say "lazy", but you did describe your wife as "a coward". That is not a kind word to use on someone you care about. Anyway, my point for bringing that up was to suggest that maybe this woman was correct about your relationship with your wife?

Huh? Stab you? Would I want to stab you if I didn't even know you? What would be my motive if I haven't even established a relationship with you? Do I know you personally? Am I missing something here? :/ Why do you use such strong words to describe situations or individuals? There goes your communication again!

I said coward? or what you think I said? She is afraid to push her boundaries here being only in america 3 years. However, you are the one that is implying personal knowledge of me skippy.

My communication is fine, it's people like you that try to read deeper into what I have said or not said. This is a forum, stream of consciousness is the logical approach to responses, not writing a thesis each time.

you go though...carry your torch high.