Originally posted by: yllus
Never, ever have a significant other on your IM list.
Best advice ever.
Originally posted by: yllus
Never, ever have a significant other on your IM list.
Originally posted by: mooglekit
Good God, first piece of advice is just to learn when to drop it...seriously, could you have dragged that out any longer?? I believe that is the best example of digging yourself deeper I've ever seen...amazing...
On another note, talking in person or on the phone prolly would help avoid these stupid, pretty little arguments that go on forever for no apparent reason...people will say anything on IM...there are more filters the more real a person gets (in person > on the phone > IM > email)
Originally posted by: Cat
Originally posted by: Juddog
After going through about 1/3 of this and then scrolling down, it's easy to see your mistake: you refuse to drop things. When a person says that they don't really care / feel like talking about something, or show signs that it makes them agitated, then chances are it's not worth talking about with them unless it involves financial matters or matters of health (such as someone getting sick, or talking about a rent check etc.)
You basically keep digging yourself a deeper hole and making things worse.
What if this behavior is typical? Frequent one-way criticism, with no discussion?
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: mooglekit
Good God, first piece of advice is just to learn when to drop it...seriously, could you have dragged that out any longer?? I believe that is the best example of digging yourself deeper I've ever seen...amazing...
On another note, talking in person or on the phone prolly would help avoid these stupid, pretty little arguments that go on forever for no apparent reason...people will say anything on IM...there are more filters the more real a person gets (in person > on the phone > IM > email)
it appears he wanted to but she shut him down.
dude sounds like a major whiny bitch. had someone kept at it like he did, i would have done the same thing as her.
Originally posted by: Cat
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: mooglekit
Good God, first piece of advice is just to learn when to drop it...seriously, could you have dragged that out any longer?? I believe that is the best example of digging yourself deeper I've ever seen...amazing...
On another note, talking in person or on the phone prolly would help avoid these stupid, pretty little arguments that go on forever for no apparent reason...people will say anything on IM...there are more filters the more real a person gets (in person > on the phone > IM > email)
it appears he wanted to but she shut him down.
dude sounds like a major whiny bitch. had someone kept at it like he did, i would have done the same thing as her.
So basically you believe you can express whatever opinion you'd like, and not be called on it?
Originally posted by: mooglekit
learn when to drop it
"take some aspirin. i'm busy - talk later - luv ya bye"Originally posted by: Cat
Originally posted by: meltdown75
don't people use phones anymore?
I was at work, trying to make her feel better about some tooth pain she'd been having.
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Cat
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: mooglekit
Good God, first piece of advice is just to learn when to drop it...seriously, could you have dragged that out any longer?? I believe that is the best example of digging yourself deeper I've ever seen...amazing...
On another note, talking in person or on the phone prolly would help avoid these stupid, pretty little arguments that go on forever for no apparent reason...people will say anything on IM...there are more filters the more real a person gets (in person > on the phone > IM > email)
it appears he wanted to but she shut him down.
dude sounds like a major whiny bitch. had someone kept at it like he did, i would have done the same thing as her.
So basically you believe you can express whatever opinion you'd like, and not be called on it?
no dude....you can call girls out on there bullshit all the time but you never do it in the manner that you did. You just came off as annoying and whiny.
I had a friend who took this approach a few years back...turns out he took home the fat chick with his beer goggles on, then he ended up like Bibble in the other thread hanging around the top of the world today...Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
I read enough of that conversation to come up with a few conclusions.
1. This chick has issues
2. You have issues with this chick
3. This chick likes to start fights
4. She's chatting with someone else while she chats with you
5. You need to drop her and get laid by the next beer ho you meet....badly.
Originally posted by: Cat
I'm not homophobic, though. I don't really appreciate the immediate knee-jerk reaction to a phrase that automatically labels me homophobic.
Originally posted by: Cat
Originally posted by: BigJ
I'm not a Doctor, but I believe LSU MD is. I'm going to ask him to write a prescription for two testicles. You can fill it whenever you get around to it.
Originally posted by: Baloo
OP, you are not going to like this, but you made that into what it is by pushing the gay thing on her. She handled her self very maturely, you did not. I seriously suggest you seek counseling.