Okey dokey... this is a tough one. Alright let me first off tell you that I'm 17, and this person I'm about to describe is an ex-girlfriend who is also 17 and we're trying to build back up to a friendship that we had before we went out, previous to going out, her and I Had probably been BEST friends for 10-12 years
Here we go.... I haven't talked to her face to face since April of last year, most of it has been e-mailing/attempted phone calls which are usually at the wrong time because usually I don't want anything to do with her. She goes to my school and what word is spoken to me by her is usually a hesitant "Hi" for fear that I'll bite her head off (which used to be true but no longer do I waste the anger because it's a waste of my time to turn and acknowledge her). But like I said... day by day we are building, as of recent I've heard a confirmed rumor that she's getting married to her current boyfriend (who BTW: she cheated on me with). When they first started going out she was all twitter pattered and I was trying to convince her that this isn't the guy for her because the guy is a complete bum. She's probably going to graduate in the top 10 of my class and he's going to flunk out of college (yeah, he's a junior in college going out with a senior in high school that should say something for him). Anyways, they haven't been going out for a year yet and I guess that they're getting married. So what I'm wondering... is suppose I'm invited to the wedding should I go? I don't like either of them really. Should I try to be friends with her, it's been made obvious to me in the past that she really wants me back (as a friend), but I'm worried that she'll hurt me again, because she hurt me mentally when I was friends with her and when we where going out, I just don't want it to happen again and lastly, should I Tell her what I think about him? or no?
Help!,
ThE KeEp
Here we go.... I haven't talked to her face to face since April of last year, most of it has been e-mailing/attempted phone calls which are usually at the wrong time because usually I don't want anything to do with her. She goes to my school and what word is spoken to me by her is usually a hesitant "Hi" for fear that I'll bite her head off (which used to be true but no longer do I waste the anger because it's a waste of my time to turn and acknowledge her). But like I said... day by day we are building, as of recent I've heard a confirmed rumor that she's getting married to her current boyfriend (who BTW: she cheated on me with). When they first started going out she was all twitter pattered and I was trying to convince her that this isn't the guy for her because the guy is a complete bum. She's probably going to graduate in the top 10 of my class and he's going to flunk out of college (yeah, he's a junior in college going out with a senior in high school that should say something for him). Anyways, they haven't been going out for a year yet and I guess that they're getting married. So what I'm wondering... is suppose I'm invited to the wedding should I go? I don't like either of them really. Should I try to be friends with her, it's been made obvious to me in the past that she really wants me back (as a friend), but I'm worried that she'll hurt me again, because she hurt me mentally when I was friends with her and when we where going out, I just don't want it to happen again and lastly, should I Tell her what I think about him? or no?
Help!,
ThE KeEp