F*$ck, Another Good Friend Is Checking Out :( :( :(

Perknose

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First of all, allow me to complain about Facebook, where females and the young and the clueless gather to blather. Ugh. But, from time to time, to keep up with some of the folks in your life, you gotta' log on.

Saw this today:

Hello, This is Steve, Gwyn's husband. I just wanted to update everyone on Gwyn's status. Thank you so much for all your continued thoughts and prayers, they are so helpful and generous. Gwyn's condition has worsened, we've decided it's time to come home. We will spend our final days at home and are appreciative of all your prayers and love. Feel free to continue to communicate to us through this page. Love, Steve and Gwyn

Cancer of the spine. This has been playing out for the last couple of years.

Gwyn's an accomplished artist. Her husband Steve is a truly good guy. He's the engineer to Gwyn's artist, the low key guy to her flamboyant extrovert.

The parties at their house were always fun, since he'd rigged a tap coming right out of the wall in their kitchen, which dispensed the kick-ass homebrew, in copious quantities, that he was always concocting.

I'll never forget their wedding, years ago now. They rented the camp in the Adirondacks that our hippie church then used for our annual church camp. A whole bunch of us went up.

Steve rigged up a killer outdoor sound system down by the lake (Lake Paradox!) , and the highlight was Steve and Gwyn being paddles in across the lake in separate canoes as drum heavy tribal music blared from the speakers and all of us guys shook and shimmied in grass skirts in unconsciously transgendered bliss.

About a month ago, I tried to lure Steve out to Northlandz, which I know he would have loved, but I couldn't get him to budge from Gwyn's side. I knew he needed the respite, but that's Steve. He'd give up his life for Gwyn, literally, and without hesitation.

Did I mention that Gwyn is an accomplished artist? Of course, she hasn't created much in the last two years or so, but the short video in this kickstarter campaign of hers from 2011 will give you a broader vision of her art and her photography. <----- It's well worth the 3 minutes of your time to peruse, imho.

I still have, in my living room, a drawing of hers that I made the mistake of LOL admiring one day, years ago, when I was over her house. So, of course, she gave it to me. I think I'll go get it and scan it in. Here is it, excuse the crappy scan:



You can't easily see, but on the left side is "Get a job" inscribed 3 times. That's what made me LOL. :biggrin:

Here's a pic of her as a child:



And here's a self-portrait of her as an adult:



For some reason, it's important that you (mostly guys) know that Gwyn had a kick-ass bod:



One of my fond memories of her will be the time at church camp (my church is almost assuredly not like your church) when Gwyn and Lisa, another extremely well-endowed woman got into a dispute, right outside the lunch room, over who had the bigger boobs.

It was settled, in broad daylight, right on the spot. We guys were happy to be the impartial judges. Sadly, Gwyn came in second in a field of two.

But trust me, there were no losers that fine Adirondack day!

I'm gonna' miss you, Gwyn.
 

KeithTalent

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Damn, sorry to hear Perk. Losing two close friends so close together must be rough.

KT
 

kranky

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Sorry to hear that, Perk, it has to be difficult to go through this again so soon. Nice remembrance you shared.

What an interesting marriage it must be - an artist and an engineer!
 

Perknose

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I have to add this, so you'll all know that Gwyn and I share a similar sense of humor:

 

cubby1223

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First of all, allow me to complain about Facebook, where females and the young and the clueless gather to blather. Ugh. But, from time to time, to keep up with some of the folks in your life, you gotta' log on.

Yea, I'm one without a facebook account. Week ago parents of a friend set up a memorial gathering marking the 10 year anniversary of his death in a car accident.

I happened to call up another friend the day before and talked for a while. Then a half-hour later he calls me back "It occurred to me you're not on facebook so you probably don't know this event is planned for tomorrow..."

I've never cared for social networking but it's becoming a necessity today.
 
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Mxylplyx

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Sounds like a very interesting woman. It it possible to find a church like you describe in the middle of the bible belt where I live?
 

LTC8K6

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Sorry that you are losing a friend. Glad that you had the pleasure of such a friend in life.

I never know what to say at these times. Strength to you and to her family.
 

blankslate

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My condolences,

I can get a small glimpse of why you admired that piece of artwork from the thumbnail scan. Is it possible to see larger image of it?

Hopefully the coming period of time isn't harder than necessary to you and everyone who knows your friend.


.....
 

Blackjack200

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Sorry to hear, Perk. I read this the the other day and thought you might like it.

When Death Comes (Mary Oliver)

When death comes
like the hungry bear in autumn;
when death comes and takes all the bright coins from his purse

to buy me, and snaps the purse shut;
when death comes
like the measle-pox;

when death comes
like an iceberg between the shoulder blades,

I want to step through the door full of curiosity, wondering:
what is it going to be like, that cottage of darkness?

And therefore I look upon everything
as a brotherhood and a sisterhood,
and I look upon time as no more than an idea,
and I consider eternity as another possibility,

and I think of each life as a flower, as common
as a field daisy, and as singular,

and each name a comfortable music in the mouth,
tending, as all music does, toward silence,

and each body a lion of courage, and something
precious to the earth.

When it's over, I want to say: all my life
I was a bride married to amazement.
I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms.

When it's over, I don't want to wonder
if I have made of my life something particular, and real.
I don't want to find myself sighing and frightened,
or full of argument.

I don't want to end up simply having visited this world.



I know that you are coming to a point in your life where you lose people you've known for a very long time, and that must be terribly difficult. I hope you can take some comfort in having lived a life that was enriched by these people, and that, in turn, enriched theirs. Unless my parents outlive me, no one will miss me when I'm gone.
 

OBLAMA2009

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dying totally sucks, and dying from cancer really sucks. its better to be eaten by a crocodile, or hit by a semi on your bike
 

gooseman

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Sorry to hear of your friends circumstances. It's not easy. I'm 51 years old and lost my Dad last November to Cancer. Also, my Mom is a survivor for about 38 years now and I'm a survivor right at the 2 year mark. Cancer absolutely sucks.
 

Perknose

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Gwyn passed last night.

Hello, This is Steve, it is with great sorrow, and joy, that Gwyn has continued her journey beyond which we can know. Surrounded by her family, Gwyn's passing was peaceful at 6:05 this evening. Her life and legacy with forever be with me and all of you. So let us rejoice in what she has given us and know that we will see her again. Arrangements will be announced at a later date. Thank for all the love and support you have provided us along the way. Love, Steve and Gwyn
 
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