I'm looking for some advice. I have a brother who I'm afraid might be in a tailspin. He's 35, worked as a CNA for years and got fired last month for attendance and falling asleep at work. I paid his rent for December. He is now working retail for near minimum wage and is in poverty status (no savings, no CC, thousands in debt to payday loans). His car likely won't last a year and he lives 2k miles away. He doesn't have the option to move in with other family members and other family members do not have the means to financially support him. He has never been diagnosed with a mental issue, but it's clear he has something wrong. He's a conspiracy nut, he never does things the right way, there is always an excuse for his problems other than the problem being him.
With that said, does anyone have any advice on what I should do, or something to make me feel better? I don't know if I can give him $500 every month to not be homeless. He makes excuses why he won't get on gov't assistance.
It has been causing me great stress and sadness. I feel like he would be diagnosed as at least partially disabled mentally, but he would never see a doctor. I'm afraid if he becomes homeless he will kill himself.
Thanks in advance for any advice or stories of your own.
With that said, does anyone have any advice on what I should do, or something to make me feel better? I don't know if I can give him $500 every month to not be homeless. He makes excuses why he won't get on gov't assistance.
It has been causing me great stress and sadness. I feel like he would be diagnosed as at least partially disabled mentally, but he would never see a doctor. I'm afraid if he becomes homeless he will kill himself.
Thanks in advance for any advice or stories of your own.