Fat chicks

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: SuperStrokey

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:

Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.

Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.

A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?

Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.

Nice ad hominem.

Women get laid FAR more than men.

not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.

talk about a double standard. she should dump your ass

 

[judasmachine]

Biggest girl I've ever gone for was about 150lbs. IIRC she was about 5'7" or so. Tennis player, it was all thigh and butt meat. Oh and boobs. [sigh]

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Hyperblaze

Originally posted by: SuperStrokey

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:

Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.

Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.

A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?

Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.

Nice ad hominem.

Women get laid FAR more than men.

not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.

talk about a double standard. she should dump your ass

but its true. Let oneself get fat/out of shape then you deserve to be dumped/divorced.

You can't just let your body go like that, it signals much deeper problems with life other than just weight.

 

[NiKeFiDO]

you. your fat.

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: SuperStrokey

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:

Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.

Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.

A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?

Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.

Nice ad hominem.

Women get laid FAR more than men.

not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.

Let me break it down for ya.

What does a guy have to do to have sex with the woman? The dates, the charm, flirting, (showering), getting away from the computer, and that's all if he has the nerve to go talk to a girl. (subtract about 60% of guys)

What does a girl have to do to have sex with the guy? Not say no. That is, if the girl has advancements flying at her. And if she doesn't, just visit ATOT with a few pics annnnd bingo.


Now I'm all for being healthy and encouraging health, but if you'd break up with your GF because she put on some weight? Well... I guess you don't like her for her irresistable charm and sharp wit.


As soon as you start putting "standards" and "qualifications" on who you'd date or break up with, a certian per cent of the population becomes non-existant to your dating self. And even if you don't like people for their personalities, there's alot of "fat chicks" out there that could "rock yo world". Now I don't know about you, but I'm not trying to miss out on a good time.

Eh.. my only qualm with "ugly", "fat", or otherwise "undesirable" people is that many times these poor folks are so insecure and self-hating that they are difficult to talk to. If you pay attention to some more than 2 minutes they think it's true love. Not all their fault, actually it's probably more SuperStrokey's fault than anyones.

People are people. We classify ourselves far too much as it is. (without the catagories of body shape and type)

so true on so many levels.

fat = poor self esteem = unlovable.

If you don't love yourself you can't love another.

And on the point of eliminataing much of the dating pool, well that's just eh way it is. I figure I'd actually date maybe 5% of the female population (due mainly to mental and physical attirbutes). I ain't settling.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: SuperStrokey

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:

Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.

Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.

A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?

Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.

Nice ad hominem.

Women get laid FAR more than men.

not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.

Let me break it down for ya.

What does a guy have to do to have sex with the woman? The dates, the charm, flirting, (showering), getting away from the computer, and that's all if he has the nerve to go talk to a girl. (subtract about 60% of guys)

What does a girl have to do to have sex with the guy? Not say no. That is, if the girl has advancements flying at her. And if she doesn't, just visit ATOT with a few pics annnnd bingo.


Now I'm all for being healthy and encouraging health, but if you'd break up with your GF because she put on some weight? Well... I guess you don't like her for her irresistable charm and sharp wit.


As soon as you start putting "standards" and "qualifications" on who you'd date or break up with, a certian per cent of the population becomes non-existant to your dating self. And even if you don't like people for their personalities, there's alot of "fat chicks" out there that could "rock yo world". Now I don't know about you, but I'm not trying to miss out on a good time.

Eh.. my only qualm with "ugly", "fat", or otherwise "undesirable" people is that many times these poor folks are so insecure and self-hating that they are difficult to talk to. If you pay attention to some more than 2 minutes they think it's true love. Not all their fault, actually it's probably more SuperStrokey's fault than anyones.

People are people. We classify ourselves far too much as it is. (without the catagories of body shape and type)

so true on so many levels.

fat = poor self esteem = unlovable.

If you don't love yourself you can't love another.

And on the point of eliminataing much of the dating pool, well that's just eh way it is. I figure I'd actually date maybe 5% of the female population (due mainly to mental and physical attirbutes). I ain't settling.

I hope you and your keyboard have a nice life together.

You know, I stopped going to the gym for a few months here.It was winter,it snowed a lot, I work really hard and was pretty stressed, add in some health issues, a long bout of insomina and some new medications and busting my rump in the gym just wasn't on the priority list.

Thank goodness my SO isn't an idiot, he's not nagged me once even though he's in the gym daily.He's kept on cooking me healthy meals and now that the meds are working and spring is here I'm looking forward to getting active again.Most importnatly he's all the time telling me how nice I look

I couldn't go out with most of you guys, you come across as so breathtaking cruel that it
blows my mind.

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: SuperStrokey

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:

Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.

Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.

A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?

Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.

Nice ad hominem.

Women get laid FAR more than men.

not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.

Let me break it down for ya.

What does a guy have to do to have sex with the woman? The dates, the charm, flirting, (showering), getting away from the computer, and that's all if he has the nerve to go talk to a girl. (subtract about 60% of guys)

What does a girl have to do to have sex with the guy? Not say no. That is, if the girl has advancements flying at her. And if she doesn't, just visit ATOT with a few pics annnnd bingo.


Now I'm all for being healthy and encouraging health, but if you'd break up with your GF because she put on some weight? Well... I guess you don't like her for her irresistable charm and sharp wit.


As soon as you start putting "standards" and "qualifications" on who you'd date or break up with, a certian per cent of the population becomes non-existant to your dating self. And even if you don't like people for their personalities, there's alot of "fat chicks" out there that could "rock yo world". Now I don't know about you, but I'm not trying to miss out on a good time.

Eh.. my only qualm with "ugly", "fat", or otherwise "undesirable" people is that many times these poor folks are so insecure and self-hating that they are difficult to talk to. If you pay attention to some more than 2 minutes they think it's true love. Not all their fault, actually it's probably more SuperStrokey's fault than anyones.

People are people. We classify ourselves far too much as it is. (without the catagories of body shape and type)

so true on so many levels.

fat = poor self esteem = unlovable.

If you don't love yourself you can't love another.

And on the point of eliminataing much of the dating pool, well that's just eh way it is. I figure I'd actually date maybe 5% of the female population (due mainly to mental and physical attirbutes). I ain't settling.

I hope you and your keyboard have a nice life together.

You know, I stopped going to the gym for a few months here.It was winter,it snowed a lot, I work really hard and was pretty stressed, add in some health issues, a long bout of insomina and some new medications and busting my rump in the gym just wasn't on the priority list.

Thank goodness my SO isn't an idiot, he's not nagged me once even though he's in the gym daily.He's kept on cooking me healthy meals and now that the meds are working and spring is here I'm looking forward to getting active again.Most importnatly he's all the time telling me how nice I look

I couldn't go out with most of you guys, you come across as so breathtaking cruel that it
blows my mind.

that's why we come across that way to you. Its anonymous and we can speak our minds. (I'm kinda a rare case though, I'll speak my mind no matter who it ticks off)

Honey, you are damn fine (and I hope you know that) and I'm sorry somebody has worked you over. I myself have been burned as well and I know how hard it is to trust again.

But don't for a second be hard on yourself - you are one seriously hot woman. You've got a good man.

 

[iluvtruenos]

I saw a girl walking down the hallway once with her gut hanging out from under her shirt.

I nearly barfed.

 

[SWScorch]

Originally posted by: Mookow

Originally posted by: SWScorch
My girlfriend is heavier than me and laments the fact constantly. Truth is, she's not fat, just muscular and I'm a toothpick. She's not "ripped" per se, but just has a very athletic build, like a soccer player. She may not be some guy's type since she's not skinny as a rail, but I think she's hot. I don't like bony girls.

Having seen your running pictures over at geekfitness... yes, you are indeed a toothpick . How much does your gf weigh?

I'm not sure on her exact weight, but she's around my weight, maybe a very few pounds heavier. So like 130ish. Not fat by any means but she's not a toothpick like me and therefore she insists she is obese.

 

[ribbon13]

Originally posted by: iluvtruenos
I saw a girl walking down the hallway once with her gut hanging out from under her shirt.

I nearly barfed.

You're a pussy.

 

[EvilYoda]

lol, first time I've seen this thread, is it new? (didn't check)...but I instantly knew that this would be one of the biggest threads evar.

As for me...I'm really harsh on women and I doubt I have anything to say that hasn't been said...but at least I have more reason to be picky than most of the kids here.

 

[ILoveLamp]

I'm noticing a lot of you guys saying you wouldn't date a bigger girl because she obviously doesn't take care of herself. And yea, that's the common case, a girl is probably fat because she eats like hell and never works out. But I also know girls who are very active and are still bigger, it's just their body type. Plus I know plenty of thinner girls who sit on their a$$ all day and eat chips.

My point is I think a girl who is bigger can still be very attractive if she does take care of herself...wears the right clothes and carries herself well and whatnot. I know this is from out of nowhere, but I just kinda felt like putting it out there.

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
I'm noticing a lot of you guys saying you wouldn't date a bigger girl because she obviously doesn't take care of herself. And yea, that's the common case, a girl is probably fat because she eats like hell and never works out. But I also know girls who are very active and are still bigger, it's just their body type. Plus I know plenty of thinner girls who sit on their a$$ all day and eat chips.

My point is I think a girl who is bigger can still be very attractive if she does take care of herself...wears the right clothes and carries herself well and whatnot. I know this is from out of nowhere, but I just kinda felt like putting it out there.

It's just the way things are. Most men are not attracted physically to fat women.

Just like most women are not attracted to small penii or poor men or short men.

It's the way the world is and people can argue about how it's unfair, etc. I'll agree, it's unfair, but it's not going to change.

 

[MustangSVT]

max height = 5"10"

max weight = 145 lbs

wait.. those are my numbers

 

[Jeff7181]

I consider her fat.

 

[Promethply]

Her maximum height should be about 6' 2", weigh no more than 209 lbs.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: SuperStrokey

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:

Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.

Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.

A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?

Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.

Nice ad hominem.

Women get laid FAR more than men.

not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.

Let me break it down for ya.

What does a guy have to do to have sex with the woman? The dates, the charm, flirting, (showering), getting away from the computer, and that's all if he has the nerve to go talk to a girl. (subtract about 60% of guys)

What does a girl have to do to have sex with the guy? Not say no. That is, if the girl has advancements flying at her. And if she doesn't, just visit ATOT with a few pics annnnd bingo.


Now I'm all for being healthy and encouraging health, but if you'd break up with your GF because she put on some weight? Well... I guess you don't like her for her irresistable charm and sharp wit.


As soon as you start putting "standards" and "qualifications" on who you'd date or break up with, a certian per cent of the population becomes non-existant to your dating self. And even if you don't like people for their personalities, there's alot of "fat chicks" out there that could "rock yo world". Now I don't know about you, but I'm not trying to miss out on a good time.

Eh.. my only qualm with "ugly", "fat", or otherwise "undesirable" people is that many times these poor folks are so insecure and self-hating that they are difficult to talk to. If you pay attention to some more than 2 minutes they think it's true love. Not all their fault, actually it's probably more SuperStrokey's fault than anyones.

People are people. We classify ourselves far too much as it is. (without the catagories of body shape and type)

so true on so many levels.

fat = poor self esteem = unlovable.

If you don't love yourself you can't love another.

And on the point of eliminataing much of the dating pool, well that's just eh way it is. I figure I'd actually date maybe 5% of the female population (due mainly to mental and physical attirbutes). I ain't settling.

I hope you and your keyboard have a nice life together.

You know, I stopped going to the gym for a few months here.It was winter,it snowed a lot, I work really hard and was pretty stressed, add in some health issues, a long bout of insomina and some new medications and busting my rump in the gym just wasn't on the priority list.

Thank goodness my SO isn't an idiot, he's not nagged me once even though he's in the gym daily.He's kept on cooking me healthy meals and now that the meds are working and spring is here I'm looking forward to getting active again.Most importnatly he's all the time telling me how nice I look

I couldn't go out with most of you guys, you come across as so breathtaking cruel that it
blows my mind.

In this thread Geekbabe.... you get a double :thumbsup::thumbsup: from me....

It's a simple rule.

1. Everyone goes through hardtimes.

2. You dump your so when they go through hardtimes.

3. You will have to dump anyone who you are with eventually.

4. You will end up very lonely.

-Max

 

[Fritzo]

Any woman larger than the ones guys see in porn movies is fat.

 

[WT]

Skinny guys are scared by big girls ... proof found here

 

[DougK62]

Originally posted by: WT
Skinny guys are scared by big girls ... proof found here

I can look at that picture every day and it'll still make me laugh.

 

[Rudee]

Originally posted by: Coquito
Muscle weighs more then fat, remember. I've seen skinny toothpick women who are barely 5'4" push 140.

Muscle weights more than fat? Oh really... I always thought a pound of muscle and a pound of fat weight the same. Interesting...

 

[FeuerFrei]

Originally posted by: Rudee

Originally posted by: Coquito
Muscle weighs more then fat, remember. I've seen skinny toothpick women who are barely 5'4" push 140.

Muscle weights more than fat? Oh really... I always thought a pound of muscle and a pound of fat weight the same. Interesting...

Dude, we're talking mass here. Take an equal sized blob of muscle and fat and weigh each. Note which is heavier.

 

[MegaWorks]

This thread is still alive!

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: SuperStrokey

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:

Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.

Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.

A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?

Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.

Nice ad hominem.

Women get laid FAR more than men.

not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.

Let me break it down for ya.

What does a guy have to do to have sex with the woman? The dates, the charm, flirting, (showering), getting away from the computer, and that's all if he has the nerve to go talk to a girl. (subtract about 60% of guys)

What does a girl have to do to have sex with the guy? Not say no. That is, if the girl has advancements flying at her. And if she doesn't, just visit ATOT with a few pics annnnd bingo.


Now I'm all for being healthy and encouraging health, but if you'd break up with your GF because she put on some weight? Well... I guess you don't like her for her irresistable charm and sharp wit.


As soon as you start putting "standards" and "qualifications" on who you'd date or break up with, a certian per cent of the population becomes non-existant to your dating self. And even if you don't like people for their personalities, there's alot of "fat chicks" out there that could "rock yo world". Now I don't know about you, but I'm not trying to miss out on a good time.

Eh.. my only qualm with "ugly", "fat", or otherwise "undesirable" people is that many times these poor folks are so insecure and self-hating that they are difficult to talk to. If you pay attention to some more than 2 minutes they think it's true love. Not all their fault, actually it's probably more SuperStrokey's fault than anyones.

People are people. We classify ourselves far too much as it is. (without the catagories of body shape and type)

so true on so many levels.

fat = poor self esteem = unlovable.

If you don't love yourself you can't love another.

And on the point of eliminataing much of the dating pool, well that's just eh way it is. I figure I'd actually date maybe 5% of the female population (due mainly to mental and physical attirbutes). I ain't settling.

It shouldn't be that way though.

Fat (should not) = poor self esteem

I agree that if you don't love yourself HTF are you going to bring another in.

I wouldn't date much of the dating pool either, but it's generally because lots of women are soo insecure ("fat" and "skinny" alike) that I can't deal with it. The poor girls (and guys too for that matter I'm sure) are clingy and depressed. These girls with naturally beautiful faces are using oil of olay to photoshop out the truth in their beauty. I don't blame them though. Sheeeeit. A women's got so much sh!t to be it's sick. And the circle is self inforcing. I mean, girls get hooked on fasion and makeup and etc,etc... which in itself itsn't bad, but coupled with the probabilty of actually becomming a manufactured image... well, there's no hope. And then it's like, "I'm not pretty because I don't look like the cover of Redbook." Well of course you don't look like the cover of Redbook. NOBODY looks like that in real life.

And I've read elsewhere in this thread that fat girls have problems for "letting themselves go"... I agree, when we're talking about hauling a corpse out of a house with a forklift. I don't think that applies to most "fat chicks" though.

There's alot of "showing off" in our society. Qosis and his stupid house are good examples. This, I think, goes into all aspects of our lives. It's better to show off a $500 stereo on a $200 car rather than get a car that you don't have to push like the Flinstones. Eh... Superficiality. I gotta have a girl that looks good to EVERYBODY, then I'll be respected! Might be sweet in the mouth, but that sh!t is bitter in the stomach.

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
My point is I think a girl who is bigger can still be very attractive if she does take care of herself...wears the right clothes and carries herself well and whatnot. I know this is from out of nowhere, but I just kinda felt like putting it out there.

That's a key point. A sence of humor, confidence, and personality override pretty much everything else. I've heard girls say, "why don't guys like me?!" In most cases I think, "You're boring! and you're not fake enough to be a trophy." We get alot of boring people when we're always tied up with the things that don't matter.

Originally posted by: DAGTA
It's just the way things are. Most men are not attracted physically to fat women.
Just like most women are not attracted to small penii or poor men or short men.
It's the way the world is and people can argue about how it's unfair, etc. I'll agree, it's unfair, but it's not going to change.

Why do you think things are this way? Where do you think these ideas come from? Do you think a dog cares what kind of dog he's humping? "Physical Attraction?" Is this when you look at a body and think, "Damn I'd like to hit that."? Does it have to do with the face? Many here would say brownbag it. So is it just T & A? A healthy body fit for child birth is the standard I see for physical attraction. Sheeeeeit. Some of these girls are too skinny to menstrate. Some of these "hot" girls would crack their pelvis trying to move a baby. Seems problematic to me. "Health" is a pretty good standard, right? I like girls who look healthy. That's so subjective it's insane. I think a girl who eats salads and drinks water every meal is unhealthy. I bet many here would disagree.

All I'm thinking is that we (mostly women) get so many images pushed on them as to what they should look like that we've forgotten that we're the most sexy just as we are. (after you get over what "everybody else" wants)

Look at the OP, it's a thread on what society thinks is pretty. Fvck Society. /pennywise

And it is unfair. But it isn't how the world is. And it can change. Will it though? Time will tell.

 

[rickn]

remember Gwyneth Paltrow in Shallow Hal. Even only we could see every fat women like that, there'd be no problem!