Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
What height/weight combo would be the maximum that you would date, and what's the heaviest girl you've ever gone for?
if she has cankles, she's to fat
Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
What height/weight combo would be the maximum that you would date, and what's the heaviest girl you've ever gone for?
Originally posted by: rickn
remember Gwyneth Paltrow in Shallow Hal. Even only we could see every fat women like that, there'd be no problem!
Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
Originally posted by: helo7050
Originally posted by: DougK62
It's all relative. My current girl is about 5'9" and 160 and I don't think she's fat at all.
she's a whale
You like those girls who I see at the gym and wanna shove a pizza down their throats.
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: SuperStrokey
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Arguing over which sex is more shallow, consider this:
Men can sometimes change their opinions of women. We may meet a woman we're not very attracted to but, after getting to know her, we find her much more attractive.
Women know within 1 minute of meeting a man if they will ever be willing to sleep with him, and they don't change their minds either way no matter what.
A female friend told me that and I've had several other females confirm it is true. So, which sex is really more shallow?
Women might be more shallow, but I think it's also that men are less picky about who they sleep with. They just want a$$.
Nice ad hominem.
Women get laid FAR more than men.
not quite sure how that works but what ever. I told my gf that if she ever gets fat that shes gonna be single, my reason is that i cant undestand why a person would let that happen to themselves. Im 5 11 and weigh 192 pounds and i think im much over weight.
Let me break it down for ya.
What does a guy have to do to have sex with the woman? The dates, the charm, flirting, (showering), getting away from the computer, and that's all if he has the nerve to go talk to a girl. (subtract about 60% of guys)
What does a girl have to do to have sex with the guy? Not say no. That is, if the girl has advancements flying at her. And if she doesn't, just visit ATOT with a few pics annnnd bingo.
Now I'm all for being healthy and encouraging health, but if you'd break up with your GF because she put on some weight? Well... I guess you don't like her for her irresistable charm and sharp wit.
As soon as you start putting "standards" and "qualifications" on who you'd date or break up with, a certian per cent of the population becomes non-existant to your dating self. And even if you don't like people for their personalities, there's alot of "fat chicks" out there that could "rock yo world". Now I don't know about you, but I'm not trying to miss out on a good time.
Eh.. my only qualm with "ugly", "fat", or otherwise "undesirable" people is that many times these poor folks are so insecure and self-hating that they are difficult to talk to. If you pay attention to some more than 2 minutes they think it's true love. Not all their fault, actually it's probably more SuperStrokey's fault than anyones.
People are people. We classify ourselves far too much as it is. (without the catagories of body shape and type)
so true on so many levels.
fat = poor self esteem = unlovable.
If you don't love yourself you can't love another.
And on the point of eliminataing much of the dating pool, well that's just eh way it is. I figure I'd actually date maybe 5% of the female population (due mainly to mental and physical attirbutes). I ain't settling.
I hope you and your keyboard have a nice life together.
You know, I stopped going to the gym for a few months here.It was winter,it snowed a lot, I work really hard and was pretty stressed, add in some health issues, a long bout of insomina and some new medications and busting my rump in the gym just wasn't on the priority list.
Thank goodness my SO isn't an idiot, he's not nagged me once even though he's in the gym daily.He's kept on cooking me healthy meals and now that the meds are working and spring is here I'm looking forward to getting active again.Most importnatly he's all the time telling me how nice I look
I couldn't go out with most of you guys, you come across as so breathtaking cruel that it
blows my mind.
that's why we come across that way to you. Its anonymous and we can speak our minds. (I'm kinda a rare case though, I'll speak my mind no matter who it ticks off)
Honey, you are damn fine (and I hope you know that) and I'm sorry somebody has worked you over. I myself have been burned as well and I know how hard it is to trust again.
But don't for a second be hard on yourself - you are one seriously hot woman. You've got a good man.
Originally posted by: Yellow Dog
Not what the scale says, it's how the total package looks.