Bump for the afternoon.
I hate to be a voice of party-pooping, but the louder, noisier, etc, the first part of the gathering is, the less likely Elita and our then-newborn can come. She and I would definitely bow out before the "rowdy" second part, but we'd love to make it to something quieter before the real party gets going.
In fact, if most people want a rowdy sports bar for dinnertime, maybe we could meet some folks for an afternoon coffee before that? Having a newborn who will need to feed every hour / hour and a half kinda limits us to where/what we can do.
BTW, no baby yet, but its any day now.