I work at a hospital, and it's in a "not so nice" part of town. Anyway, The guards walk you out across the street to the p.lot Just so happens last night, the guard was a female. SO, Does a gentalman hold the door for her? She IS there for a gentalman's protection. Does one let her through the door first? I felt a bit of a paradox as I was walked out to my car this morning.