One of my friends (looks like Ellen Degeneres with light brown hair) is a lesbian and a feminists. I was hanging out with her (because she's super witty and fun to talk to) and another guy friend and we got into a discussion about body image and anorexia and I made a light hearted joke that if she was anorexic and a twig I would tell her that she is so hot and she would be perfect if she could lose that last pound.
She was very offended about this because she doesn't like it when people that have body image issues are made fun of. I don't think I was making fun of these people, but of the situation. I can see why she would be angry, but I don't feel bad about it.
Was I wrong for making the joke and why? I have an empathy problem and I can't relate to a lot of people so i need your help explaining this to me.
Also I'm the kind of person that thinks rape is not funny, but rape jokes are hilarious.
She was very offended about this because she doesn't like it when people that have body image issues are made fun of. I don't think I was making fun of these people, but of the situation. I can see why she would be angry, but I don't feel bad about it.
Was I wrong for making the joke and why? I have an empathy problem and I can't relate to a lot of people so i need your help explaining this to me.
Also I'm the kind of person that thinks rape is not funny, but rape jokes are hilarious.
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