If the car was given to her, it very well could be considered a gift, even if title wasn't transferred yet.
I understand nutty families... my now wife(she just turned 24) had a similar situation a few years ago. She was going to get a free car from her aunt... but her parents went and badmouthed her(my wife) so that she wouldn't get the car... that was nothing compared to other things they did though... to add insult to injury, her brother(the one that has no life, no girlfriend ever, and stays at home with them still) eventually got that free car.
We had the wedding without inviting them... as an apology, they eventually threw a wedding for us on their side of the family that was free for us and we got gifts of course... so it semi-worked out in the end.
It isn't fun, but people are nuts. Don't fight with them, cut them out completely, let them learn, and then in a year or so, and ONLY then, give it another shot.
I understand nutty families... my now wife(she just turned 24) had a similar situation a few years ago. She was going to get a free car from her aunt... but her parents went and badmouthed her(my wife) so that she wouldn't get the car... that was nothing compared to other things they did though... to add insult to injury, her brother(the one that has no life, no girlfriend ever, and stays at home with them still) eventually got that free car.
We had the wedding without inviting them... as an apology, they eventually threw a wedding for us on their side of the family that was free for us and we got gifts of course... so it semi-worked out in the end.
It isn't fun, but people are nuts. Don't fight with them, cut them out completely, let them learn, and then in a year or so, and ONLY then, give it another shot.