Golgatha
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- Jul 18, 2003
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Originally posted by: Fern
Originally posted by: griffis
....I let him know that if he took the car away then he was also revoking his right as a grandparent, he basically laughed at me and said he didn't care...........
I'd keep the kid out of it.
If he ever wants to see the grandkid, let him. Just keep an eye on him. I wouldn't deprive a kid of their grandparent, even a bad one. Sometimes when a grandparent (or even a parent) doesn't wanna see them, the kid blames him/herself.
Otherwise, I suggest you act like "no big deal" that the car is gone from now on. Don't give him the pleasure.
No, its not right that he "gave", then took the car away. But what you gonna do? You can't choose your relatives, just your friends.
People are shafted by their relatives all the time. I'm the oldest of 3 children. My parents made we start working when I was 10 yrs old etc. Not my younger brothers, my parent purchased cars for them (I had to buy my own). I'm the only one who went to college etc.
I just found out my parents are leaving the inheretence to my youngest brother. Their reason? He doesn't have a good education and can't fend for himself etc. Why didn't he go to college? Because he doesn't like school so he dropped out of highschool and became a stoner.
Is that fair? I don't think so, but fvck it I'll just blow it off and still let my son have time with his grandparents.
Good Luck with it and your kid.
Fern
Life will catch up with the stoner brother. Once your parents inheritance runs out, he'll start leeching off his siblings. As long as you don't let him leech, the lesson will get learned.