FINAL UPDATE 15/9 : Got ASSAULTED Fri. evening. (Prev: Landord verbally threatened my gf and our 2 week old newborn)

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Howard

Lifer
Oct 14, 1999
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Originally posted by: PrinceofWands
Just shoot him, better for the entire world. People like that don't have a right to live.
If only things were so easy.
 

SphinxnihpS

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Feb 17, 2005
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Originally posted by: DrPizza
1st stop: order of protection that forbids the landlord from coming within 500 feet of you, which means he can't even come to the building he owns. He'll have to hire someone for any repairs. Then, find trivial things that need to be fixed.

He doesn't have the EVIDENCE to get one. He can get a temp order of restraint which is good for up to the time of the OoP hearing; then the judge will throw out the OoP request for lack of evidence.

Kick his ass without any weapon right before you leave town. They will not follow you to another state for a simple battery. And if you do it right, they won't have any evidence it was you either.
 

Vonkhan

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Update:

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Part 1

I got assaulted on Friday evening

I was packing and going in & out of the building to dump trash & junk

I opened my apt door & a big guy (5'10-5'11, 220-240lbs, large build) pulled me out by grabbing my shirt front. I saw a punch coming and was able to move my head just in time - so I got a glancing blow to the right side of my face (which gave me a red welt instead of a broken nose)

I punched him twice - the first one, left fist to his lip (effective) and a right fist to his stomach (missed, hit a rib/lower chest, ineffective)

He grappled me and wrestled me to the ground - his body weight on mine (I weigh 145lbs or so), which dislocated my right shoulder.

He got up, went (I want to say ran) for the building exit (10' away) - saying "Don't ever call the cops on no one again or I'll kill you"

I called 911 right away. They came along with an ambulance. Most of the cops were very helpful. I gave them as accurate a report as possible. The senior officer there (I notice he had a single stripe) said "I just don't see why someone tou don't know would do this - are you sure all this happened?" I guess he hadn't been listening closely to what I had to say before (mentioned all previous incidents with landlord including the verbal threats to my gf)

Notes:
Gf was already on Atlanta flight
Dogs were with my neighbor - pity, they would've helped

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Part 2

Ambulance took me to the ER @ New York Methodist. Admitted at approx. 9pm. Long story short - the docs were able to put my shoulder back in at about 1:30am. Discharged at 4:45am.

Went home - my key would not open the apt. door. Something had been stuck inside the keyhole. Friend who was with me managed to climb in thru a window.

Spent the night in my apt with my friend - since then I have been forced to spend the night at my neighbor's, friends', cousins' homes - not that I'm scared, but it's hard to say no when friends & relatives start crying & telling you how worried they are.

I've moved out most of my stuff from the apt. into storage since the front door won't lock anymore.

This weekend I plan to go to Atlanta to drop off the dogs at my gf's mother's place - going to be quite a trip with a dislocated shoulder.
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So ... more thoughts in a while, I'm at work - my boss is awesome - shoulder's driving me insane (trying to stay off pain killers)


EDIT: I not "living" in my apt anymore - staying with family & friends, even tho I really want to be back in my own place. I'd like to think that I can defend my own turf, but that's going to be hard with a dislocated right shoulder.
 

MotF Bane

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Dec 22, 2006
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What the fuck? How much longer are you stuck there? You need to get something to protect yourself in case the big dude comes back.
 

MrChad

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Aug 22, 2001
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If this story is real, this is the most unbelievable landlord-tenant dispute story I have ever heard. You need to get you and your GF as far away from that building and that landlord ASAP.
 

jonks

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Feb 7, 2005
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Small claims court is now out of the question. Time to call in the big guns. You have enough circumstantial evidence at this point to talk to a lawyer. Try the free consultation ones first if you want, but I'd talk to someone.
 

DomS

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Jul 15, 2008
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um are you shitting me? This is like a bad lifetime movie where the cops do nothing
 

Atheus

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Jun 7, 2005
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Originally posted by: AstroManLuca
Buy a gun. Get a carry license. Next time someone attacks you, kill him dead.

Normally I would respond to that with "this is everything that is wrong with america" or somesuch, but in this case, and especially since you have a young child, I would seriously think about getting some kind of weapon... not a concealed handgun but maybe a shotgun or a metal bat...

 

Syringer

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Aug 2, 2001
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Oct. 1:

7pm:
Neighbour is taking care of my dogs
Dogs are tied up in front of my neighbour's apartment
Neighbour goes inside her apt. to get something
LL unties the dogs, leads them into an alleyway behind my apartment building and locks the gate
Neighbour comes out, SEES the LL lock up the dogs and confronts him & asks him to let the dogs out
LL ignores her and walks away

Oct 17:

I got assaulted on Friday evening

I was packing and going in & out of the building to dump trash & junk

I opened my apt door & a big guy (5'10-5'11, 220-240lbs, large build) pulled me out by grabbing my shirt front. I saw a punch coming and was able to move my head just in time - so I got a glancing blow to the right side of my face (which gave me a red welt instead of a broken nose)

Not to dwindle on the situation here--but that's 17 days since the first incident happened, where your LL urined in your apartment. The natural inclination for someone with a newborn would be to move out IMMEDIATELY, no ifs ands or buts about it.
 

AstroManLuca

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Jun 24, 2004
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Originally posted by: ivan2
Originally posted by: AstroManLuca
Buy a gun. Get a carry license. Next time someone attacks you, kill him dead.

impossible with such short notice in NYC.

Oh, you're in NYC... well, no real chance of getting anything there.

Just, um... yeah. Get out of there as quickly as possible. And press charges.
 

KeithTalent

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Nov 30, 2005
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This has to be one of the most fucked up things I've ever read. Insane.

KT
 

Ktulu

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Wow. I feel bad for OP, this is the kinds of times you wish you had some getto ass friends or family members to help you take care of business.
 
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