First Trio married in Netherlands

Queasy

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Ok, actually a civil union but the trio keeps saying "marry" and "marriage".

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The Netherlands and Belgium were the first countries to give full marriage rights to homosexuals. In the United States some politicians propose ?civil unions? that give homosexual couples the full benefits and responsibilities of marriage. These civil unions differ from marriage only in name.

Meanwhile in the Netherlands polygamy has been legalised in all but name. Last Friday the first civil union of three partners was registered. Victor de Bruijn (46) from Roosendaal ?married? both Bianca (31) and Mirjam (35) in a ceremony before a notary who duly registered their civil union.

?I love both Bianca and Mirjam, so I am marrying them both,? Victor said. He had previously been married to Bianca. Two and a half years ago they met Mirjam Geven through an internet chatbox. Eight weeks later Mirjam deserted her husband and came to live with Victor and Bianca. After Mirjam?s divorce the threesome decided to marry.

Victor: ?A marriage between three persons is not possible in the Netherlands, but a civil union is. We went to the notary in our marriage costume and exchanged rings. We consider this to be just an ordinary marriage.?

Asked by journalists to tell the secret of their peculiar relationship, Victor explained that there is no jealousy between them. ?But this is because Mirjam and Bianca are bisexual. I think that with two heterosexual women it would be more difficult.? Victor stressed, however, that he is ?a one hundred per cent heterosexual? and that a fourth person will not be allowed into the ?marriage.? They want to take their marriage obligations seriously: ?to be honest and open with each other and not philander.?
 

Kadarin

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That's awesome. There's no reason why this should not be encouraged, if it's right for the people involved. If you read through the works of the late Robert Heinlein, these kinds of social arrangements occurred a lot, all in loving environments.
 

ILikeStuff

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Two and a half years ago they met Mirjam Geven through an internet chatbox. Eight weeks later Mirjam deserted her husband and came to live with Victor and Bianca. After Mirjam?s divorce the threesome decided to marry.

They want to take their marriage obligations seriously: ?to be honest and open with each other and not philander.?

Yeah, sure they do. Mirjam has definitely demonstrated that she's not a flake by deserting her husband for a couple she met on teh intarweb
 

AnitaPeterson

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wow...

time for some religious jihad from disgruntled fanatics who can't get any (and I don't mean Muslims only!)

*edi* in any case, a VERY, VERY interesting situation, which should give authorities as well as civic groups a lot to think about...
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: ILikeStuff

Two and a half years ago they met Mirjam Geven through an internet chatbox. Eight weeks later Mirjam deserted her husband and came to live with Victor and Bianca. After Mirjam?s divorce the threesome decided to marry.

They want to take their marriage obligations seriously: ?to be honest and open with each other and not philander.?

Yeah, sure they do. Mirjam has definitely demonstrated that she's not a flake by deserting her husband for a couple she met on teh intarweb

Of course you have no idea what the condition of her previous relationship was, so maybe you don't really have grounds to make assumptions.
 

Queasy

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Originally posted by: AnitaPeterson
wow...

time for some religious jihad from disgruntled fanatics who can't get any (and I don't mean Muslims only!)

Well, considering that this is in the Netherlands, I expect the religious jihad from disgruntled fanatics to come solely from radical Muslims.
 

AreaCode707

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
That's awesome. There's no reason why this should not be encouraged, if it's right for the people involved. If you read through the works of the late Robert Heinlein, these kinds of social arrangements occurred a lot, all in loving environments.

You say "occurred" as though Heilein's writings were historical documentation of something. He wrote sci fi.
 

Gravity

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
That's awesome. There's no reason why this should not be encouraged, if it's right for the people involved. If you read through the works of the late Robert Heinlein, these kinds of social arrangements occurred a lot, all in loving environments.

You say "occurred" as though Heilein's writings were historical documentation of something. He wrote sci fi.

LMAO!!!

Ya, I was thinking that too. One of the ship's names in one of the books was "gay deceiver".
 

SMOGZINN

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
That's awesome. There's no reason why this should not be encouraged, if it's right for the people involved. If you read through the works of the late Robert Heinlein, these kinds of social arrangements occurred a lot, all in loving environments.

You say "occurred" as though Heilein's writings were historical documentation of something. He wrote sci fi.

Well they were billed as future history, although Heinlein himself did not like that title.
Personally I love the idea of a line marriage. I personally would consider joining such a union.
 

daveymark

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Let me know when marriage to children and pets is possible, then give me a call (should only be a few more years)
 
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