I have also looked seriously at the Raptor, but for me it would not be a daily driver. A co-worker has a Raptor as a daily driver and other than parking, he loves it. He has to park across the street because it won't fit in the garage in our building. His wife likes it and so does everyone who rides in it. Black SuperCrew (if I buy, I am going to get the SuperCab).
Mileage is bad, as you know, but he doesn't care. And another co-worker ran the numbers, like someone in this thread, so you also know it is not significant. If you are looking Ford, I think the Raptor is the logical choice. I am also considering the Ram, but I want to drive the new light-duty diesel. I know, not really the same, but with the diesel I might be willing to drive to work occasionally. My commute is 40 miles each way. I guess that falls into the category of alternatives.
My only other suggestion for the features you are looking for based on cars I have looked at is the Grand Cherokee. I like the Overland Summit if you are looking premium, and love the SRT. However, I want to spend some time with diesel Grand Cherokee, too. Also, when I start looking at the SRT I have to consider the Cayenne. Not sure why I don't consider the X5, as my daily driver is a 335i. I might have to look again.
Conclusion, the Raptor as a daily driver is easily done if you have parking, and other than that I don't think you will have complaints. And you mentioned this earlier, but with the 2015s coming soon, it is hard not to wait and see if they make the Raptor. But 2014 has the special edition red, if you want a unique color from the factory. Good luck.