Originally posted by: WelshBloke
Originally posted by: magomago
You know what, I am pushing others to accept these women to go and swim. You know why? For me, it simply isn't a random 'population' of females who wear Hijabs. I can put actual faces, names, and experiences to these women. I know some of them actually want to go out and swim, but for their personal reasons (many may think they simply are 'oppressed' but when you speak to them and realize how smart they are, you start to see that they actually appreciate and enjoy their hjiab) they feel they can't. This actually gives them a chance to go out, to swim, and to enjoy places like the beach. I know other Muslim women who don't wear hijabs but are equally as uncomfortable in a bikini. By forcing them away on the false notion of 'accomodating them', you prevent people's assimilation into a new culture and you futher isolate them. Who would have thought that isolating immigrants further is what advocated.
I think those are the attitudes the French are trying to stop from 'infecting' their culture.
The French are very comfortable with their body images, which you'll be more than aware of if you've ever been to a public beach in the south of France. They don't view the body as shameful.
They would view those women as oppressed, and so truly oppressed that the women don't even question it or think it out of the ordinary any more.
Well here is the problem: it isn't "infection" in the culture. Its simply a different idea and way to do things. There is nothing wrong with that, no more than wanting to wear a bikini.
I personally don't think the body is shameful, and I think it depends on each person and how they view it. Some 'big' women I know most definitely aren't comfortable with a bikini because they view their body as shameful even though they really built themselves into it. some other women (muslims that I know) don't have shame in their body, but simply refuse to wear what they deem to be revealing clothing.
Its really trying to legislate a point a view and get everything to think/accept the same standard. What I thought about the other day is that societies typically have an issue if you don't cover up to the minimum standards --> rarely is there an issue with covering up MORE. Back in my Jr. High School there were rules such as "Guys can sag, but you aren't allowed to show your ass/boxers". "Girls can't wear short tops that reveals their stomach, it must cover it up". to go in excess of these rules --> ie: not sag and wear normal pants, or wear a longer shirt that covers more than the stomach area, was allowed.
Its an interesting thing to think about - the balance between meeting a society's standards and maintaining one's of preference.