Originally posted by: HardWarrior
Ken, it's NEVER good form to correct others in this fashion, unless you're perfect. Or do you enjoy the idea of looking like a snob? Moreover, what does such a SIMPLE mistake have to do with the topic at hand? There are many people here, with wildly differing language skills. Some aren't even native English speakers. Are you going to make it your personal crusade to ride them all?
Ummm, let's take a step back and review my original post. These were my exact words, verbatim:
No offense, but it's dew (spelled d-e-w) point, not "due" point.
Now, I'd truly like to know why on earth you are perceiving that sentence the way you are. Why do you perceive it as "snobby" or rude or whatever it is that bothers you so much? Where did you get the idea, or how were you taught, that simply telling someone that they've spelled a word incorrectly is inappropriate or impolite or something?. And what is "good form"? Is that some made-up idea in your head or ??? Could you please cite your frame of reference for what constitutes "good form"? And be specific.
Are you from another country and is this some cultural thing or something? Because here in the U.S., correcting someone does not usually result in hostility or defensiveness (
particularly when it's prefaced by a sincere "no offense"). At least not from well-adjusted adults, anyway. I've had a number of misconceptions and wrong ideas about computers cleared up for me by dozens of Anandtech.com members over the last two years. I would cetainly characterize this as them "correcting" my misconceptions. In response, I've thanked them and appreciated them. I've never lashed out at anyone trying to help me and called them an "ass," or a "snob," or told them to "get a life." :roll:
As I expected, you completely and totally evaded every single question I put to you in my last post. Why? What are you afraid of?
I repeat my challenge to you to answer each and every question from my previous post. I also challenge you to answer these two additional questions:
1. Throughout your life, when you were in school and made a mistake on a test or assignment, did the teacher point out your mistake to you? Did the teacher mark it as "wrong" or whatever on your paper? Assuming you'll answer "yes," please explain how you reacted in these instances. Did you become hostile with the teacher and tell him/her that it was "never good form to correct others" and that he/she shouldn't correct you unless he/she was "perfect"? Please be specific in your answer.
2. When you make a mistake, simple or otherwise, do you have any interest in learning from your mistake or do you prefer to live in denial and continue to make the same mistake over & over for the rest of your life? If not, how would a person
help you by correcting you without being treated with hostility in return? Again, please be specific in your answer.
3. Please explain -- specifically -- why you believe that no one can correct another person unless they themselves are "perfect." I really would like to know how you arrive at this viewpoint.
So are you going to run away again and evade these three questions, plus the ones I asked the other night, or are you going to step up to the plate and answer each and every one of them? If you're going to run away, please explain to me and everyone else reading this forum
why you refuse to answer these questions.
PS: No, I have no desire to engage in a "crusade to ride them all." I might offer help now and again if I think I have knowledge that can help someone, but your silly insinuation that I would go out of my way to correct people's spelling or grammar out of some sort of snobbery is laughable. There are typos and mistakes in virtually every post and article on this entire site (prolly including some of mine), but I don't go around correcting them. Only reason I corrected your friend Idleuser is that I was trying to help him so he wouldn't continue to make the same mistake from now on. I didn't call him a name or insult or disrespect him in any way, shape or form. It was an unbelievably simple and brief tip. Funny thing is, very few people would act the way you and he did. Most people
appreciate a helpful tip. You two, on the other hand, ....