Friend from way back called asking for help. What would you have done?

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Legios

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If I havent drank a few beers with you in the last 2 years, DO NOT expect me to field a phone call from you about help. I have helped a semi friend in need with posting bail when it isnt a major crime or money.
 

Brigandier

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Feb 12, 2008
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This sounds lie a trick a needy teenage girl would play. Heck, I'd take control of his finances, hookers and blow for everyone!
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Friends don't call you at 4:40am unless it's life and death. You may be his friend, but he's not yours.
 

BoomerD

No Lifer
Feb 26, 2006
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"Dude, I haven't heard from you in almost 10 years. Why the fuck would you be calling me for this? Good night."
 

WilliamM2

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I wouldn't even answer the phone at 4 in the morning. I can't think of anything that can't wait until morning, especially bailing someone out.
 

Peter Nixeus

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4:40am in the morning the day after July 4th? Your friend "drunk called" you... then realized later what he had done and sent those texts... just tell him you thought you were dreaming when you spoke to him and it should be fine.
 

SlitheryDee

Lifer
Feb 2, 2005
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4:40am in the morning the day after July 4th? Your friend "drunk called" you... then realized later what he had done and sent those texts... just tell him you thought you were dreaming when you spoke to him and it should be fine.

This is what I think too, but its too late to pretend I didn't know what was going on. I texted him back with a somewhat chastising message already. Whatever though. Hopefully he's so embarrassed that I never have to hear about this again anyway.
 

djnsmith7

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Apr 13, 2004
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I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who feels the need to test my friendship. That's just not how I operate.
 

moonbogg

Lifer
Jan 8, 2011
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Cross him off your friend list and keep your gun close by. This guy is fucking weird.
 

Howard

Lifer
Oct 14, 1999
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The consensus of this thread seems to be that you should find him and fuck him.
 

SlitheryDee

Lifer
Feb 2, 2005
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He won the powerball and wanted to share it with his real friends.

Well that's the Pascal's Wager of friendship isn't it? Why not just do everything anyone you know asks you to do just in case one of them will give you incredible riches one day? Chances are you'll just spend your life doing things other people should be doing for themselves, and even if you hit the jackpot, it'll be money you didn't really earn. I don't want any part of that, so it will never be a concept I act on.
 

Via

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Jan 14, 2009
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Just this Spring my mom got a call from a friend she hadn't seen in over ten years, needing some financial help overseas, and she wired them $1200.

As you can probably guess - the "friend" wasn't overseas at all. My mom's not that gullible. These people must be pretty good at what they do.
 

Dulanic

Diamond Member
Oct 27, 2000
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Sounds like a twist on the grandkid scam. Pretty sure that wasn't really your old friend.
 

Miramonti

Lifer
Aug 26, 2000
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Depends.

After verifying it was one of the 'big 3' (aka top 3 homies I grew up with), I might say I need more information but am not promising anything. Literally anyone else I would definitely say no.

"Actually I didn't need your help at all. That was a test, but it's nice to know who you can't depend on".

That's disturbing and would probably make me glad I didn't help. I dont' think I would reply and would just let the person live with that as their last comment to me.
 
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