My buddy (who is now 40) is having a midlife crisis of sorts. He was in the Army and fought in Panama. He's been out of the army for almost 20 years now, but now that he's nearing the cutoff age for re-enlisting, he's freaking out and wants to join the reserves "Before it's too late". He wants to be a Army Chaplin, in the Army Reserves. Over the past couple years, he's been going to night college to get his "bible" degree to be a pastor, but I think it's taking too long so he wants to join the Army to have them help pay for it.
I think he's just having a mid-life crisis and wants to feel apart of something again (friend totally fell into Church over the past couple years) but I'm concerned he's not making a well informed choice. He's the kinda guy that will jump from project to project, one period of time it's a Mustang obsession, the next 6 months it's Art, the next 6 it's guns.
I'd always support him in what he does, he's like a brother to me, but I need some advice on how I can pull him back over the the sanity fence.
He has 3 kids, a young wife and a big mortgage to pay. I know his wife and she's not the kind that can deal with her husband being deployed.
EDIT: This is not a knock on anyone in the service or who wants to re-enlist, I have tons of respect for our military and their families. I just feel it's not right for my friend.
I think he's just having a mid-life crisis and wants to feel apart of something again (friend totally fell into Church over the past couple years) but I'm concerned he's not making a well informed choice. He's the kinda guy that will jump from project to project, one period of time it's a Mustang obsession, the next 6 months it's Art, the next 6 it's guns.
I'd always support him in what he does, he's like a brother to me, but I need some advice on how I can pull him back over the the sanity fence.
He has 3 kids, a young wife and a big mortgage to pay. I know his wife and she's not the kind that can deal with her husband being deployed.
EDIT: This is not a knock on anyone in the service or who wants to re-enlist, I have tons of respect for our military and their families. I just feel it's not right for my friend.