Friends with "benefits"...good? Bad?

[biglaw11]

Hrm....

Thinking about a post made by jjones in the WHEN HARRY MET SALLY thread, I want to ask you guys does FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS happen often?

I've always thought that wouldn't things be really screwed up if not break things up in a friendship??? Also, doesn't it seem like it's leading someone on since there is no TITLE and no obligations?

hrm...




-biglaw11

 

[ckkoba]

<< Hrm....

Thinking about a post made by jjones in the WHEN HARRY MET SALLY thread, I want to ask you guys does FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS happen often?

I've always thought that wouldn't things be really screwed up if not break things up in a friendship??? Also, doesn't it seem like it's leading someone on since there is no TITLE and no obligations?

hrm...




-biglaw11 >>



Friends with benefits? You mean like they give you frequent flier miles if you hang out with them??/

In all seriousness though, if you do screw around with them, it's usually mutual. And if you go into it knowing that they expect obligation, well that's just wrong my friend! Just wrong!

 

[biglaw11]

Friends with benefits? You mean like they give you frequent flier miles if you hang out with them??/

In all seriousness though, if you do screw around with them, it's usually mutual. And if you go into it knowing that they expect obligation, well that's just wrong my friend! Just wrong![/i] >>






Yeah...but do girls actually find it mutual? Girls are always sensitive, naive, and innocent. Do they really go into these "friends with benefits" type of thing with the mentality of being MUTUAL?


-biglaw11

 

[Scrapster]

You know, I always thought that:

friends w/ benefits = dating/bf-gf/relationship/etc..

It's almost a mathematical equation.

 

[ckkoba]

<< Friends with benefits? You mean like they give you frequent flier miles if you hang out with them??/

In all seriousness though, if you do screw around with them, it's usually mutual. And if you go into it knowing that they expect obligation, well that's just wrong my friend! Just wrong! >>






Yeah...but do girls actually find it mutual? Girls are always sensitive, naive, and innocent. Do they really go into these "friends with benefits" type of thing with the mentality of being MUTUAL?


-biglaw11[/i] >>



YOU EGOTISTICAL MALE. Oh please that girls are sensitive naive and innocent.
Ever since the beginning of time, we have this image of a girl that is perfect, an angel, but its not true! Girls have a sex drive too you know.

 

[Brutuskend]

NAA I lived with a woman before and we were just friends. But once in awhile we would "trim eachothers horns". It was OK

She even turned me onto a place to meat (pun intended) other women.

Doesn't happen often and usually doesn't work. But it DOES happen!

 

[Noriaki]

<< You know, I always thought that:

friends w/ benefits = dating/bf-gf/relationship/etc..

It's almost a mathematical equation. >>

No....friends with benefits means that you are just friends, no emotional attachment, but if neither of you are getting any, you have sex with each other to satisfy your sex drives.

It's kind of like a repeatable booty call, that your also friends with.

 

[Angrymarshmello]

What Noraki said. I don't see how that can be bad.

 

[pdo]

I think my female friends call it a fvck buddy.

 

[Noriaki]

<< I think my female friends call it a fvck buddy. >>

That's a good term.

 

[biglaw11]

Hahaha....LOL!



-biglaw11

 

[Brutuskend]

Thats what I always called it...

 

[FrontlineWarrior]

i wouldn't mind having a few of those myself

 

[Tsaico]

Bad idea. One or the other always gets feelings... Can never be just about sex....

 

[Brutuskend]

Was for us....so NEVER is a bad word

 

[LethalWolfe]

<< Bad idea. One or the other always gets feelings... Can never be just about sex.... >>




I disagree. It's the same philosophy behind a one night stand (I'm horny, you're horny, let's fvck) 'cept it can be/is repeated. I have friends (both male and female) that have fvck buddies. It's kinda like some people you like to go clubbing with, others are fun to out to the movies with, and others you just fvck when yer single and horny.


Lethal