Originally posted by: Masas
Originally posted by: canonfodder01
it is so hard, i don't want to leave her.
she does still love me, she never loved me any less.
the thing that i am afraid of is that, if i let her go, and mr. X is better, than she won't come back to me.
or that something else happens when we were apart (me doing something stupid with another girl.),
to me, things will only get worse when we are separated.
well...I think the best thing would either be for you to end things with her,
OR
let her go to prom with Mr. X
its a lose-lose-lose situation...
1) if YOU go to prom with her and Mr. X is there, how awkward is it going to be, not only for you, but even more so for her?
doing this also won't settle anything, it would just make things even harder than it is now...
2) she gets pressured and decides not to go to prom at all...so then she COULD end up blaming you for not "letting" her go (I know it isn't your fault, but girls can do that)
and just cause more tension/trouble...leading to an even worse break up or worse...
3) she goes to prom with Mr. X....i know it'll be hard for you to do, i think if she goes, she can either be happy for a night, and find out that Mr. X is just a friend and come back to you ever-so grateful, or she can sort her feelings and decide Mr. X is who she wants to be with...
they're all unattractive solutions, but like i said before, breaking up would be the quick/clean solution, with letting her go to prom as she wants to being the next best thing...
good luck...