Gawd; torn between two women **Update**

NFS4

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Oct 9, 1999
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What to do!!! I have two potential catches:

1) Smart, funny, easy to talk with (we have long chats on IM), cute. Lives in Charlotte, 2 and a half hours away.

Met her for the first time in person last weekend over MLK break. Was introduced to her by my best friend's sister and had been talking to her on IM for about the past month or so. We all went out to Swing 1000 (a club in Charlotte) to soak up some tunes and some food (her / me / my best friend, his sister, and his ex / his ex's sister and her boyfriend). Confusing ain't it? Well I didn't even know what she looked like until that night and I was pleasantly surprised Elizabeth (my best friend's sister) said that she she enjoyed my company as well. Strange enough, she had seen me before w/o me even knowing it. One night when I stayed over at my best bud's house, she came over to see Elizabeth and I was laying asleep on the fold-out couch...but that's another story. So I only got to talk with her that night in person, and a little the next morning. But I had to come back to Burlington We still talk on IM almost daily though...

2) Gorgeous, funny, smart, also very easy to talk with. Lives across campus.

This chick was in my class last semester and we still keep in touch. Spent a lot of time with her last semester and she used to always come over to my room to hang out before class. I've gone out to eat with her on a few occasions with friends. I don't get to talk with her as much in person as usual now as we don't have any more classes today. But she asked me out to dinner at the Dining Stall tonight and we had a nice time and chatted up a bit. We went back to her place afterwards and talked and talked. I helped her with her accounting homework. Of course I flirted with her A LOT and commented about how she always has her hair in a pony tail and that she should let it down sometimes. She let her hair down and I nearly....well, ya know Anyway, she seems to have a lot of male friends, and ex's floating around which is a bit confusing/distracting. I don't know but I must have in some way mentioned Girl #1 to her, and she asked me tonight how things went last weekend. She seemed quite jealous and wanted details...:Q


I like both, but I don't know where to go. Damn life is hard
 

spanky

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introduce the women to each other and hope it all falls into place... u know what i mean
 

gopunk

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well actually #1. i change my mind after seeing that stuff about the tons of male friends and ex's hanging around. that spells nothing but trouble in my book.
put 2 and 2 together... jealous girl, tons of men hanging around = attention whore.
 

bsobel

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> introduce the women to each other and hope it all falls into place... u know what i mean

In the words of the immortal 'Finch' "Every woman is two drinks away from their first girl on girl experience"


 

N8Magic

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<< Smart, funny, easy to talk with >>




<< Gorgeous, funny, smart, also very easy to talk with. >>



Since they both share the smart and easy to talk to qualities, you have to decide between gorgeous and cute. Myself, this gorgeous one sounds like she has a lot of past baggage (reminds me of one of my ex's, she was absolutely stunning, but we were always dealing with stuff that kept coming up from the past), and that could lead to problems.

I personally like cute girls better anyways.
 

kranky

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In cases like these, I use the theory "The order they are listed is no coincidence."
 

gopunk

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revisited... i'd say it depends on if you're looking for a relationship or not. if not, go for #2. if you are, then go for neither. long distance sucks imho, and #2 i suspect is high maintenance.
 

NFS4

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Oct 9, 1999
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<< pics ?? then i'll decide for you >>


I have pics of #2, but not #1. They are for me alone though...no sharing
 

NakaNaka

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damn you Brandon

Well this is a toughie .. I would go with one but she is 2 1/2 hours away and that makes it tough. Is it possible to try out #2 and if you don't like her go with #1??
 

NFS4

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Oct 9, 1999
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<< damn you Brandon

Well this is a toughie .. I would go with one but she is 2 1/2 hours away and that makes it tough. Is it possible to try out #2 and if you don't like her go with #1??
>>


Actually, I was thinking about that very scenario...seems plausible
 

Presence

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Uhm both is my answer hehe I dont see how one would find out about the other without you slipping. Plus that gives you more time to deicde who you wanna be with.
 

SSP

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<<

<< pics ?? then i'll decide for you >>


I have pics of #2, but not #1. They are for me alone though...no sharing
>>



Can I have a peek? I'll pay you 5 bucks!

I would go with #1 cause it sounds like less trouble and maintance.
 

NFS4

No Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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<< Uhm both is my answer hehe I dont see how one would find out about the other without you slipping. Plus that gives you more time to deicde who you wanna be with. >>


Yeah I think I let it slip when I told her what I was gonna do over break:Q Oh well, at least it got her on her toes
 

NFS4

No Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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<< NFS4,

You know better than asking for girl advises in OT, don't you?
>>


Well, my roommate and I had this discussion last night and I needed a second opinion
 

Ionizer86

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NFS4, since almost all your posts are about new news items, is this another Skoorb Effect post? It could very well be....couldn't it?


Anyway, you've known girl #2 longer, but she has many ex people. You don't know girl #1 as much, do you? That's the thing, you don't know them equally well, as far as I can tell from reading the post above.
 

kami

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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I'd probably go with the cute one, but long distance sucks and works out once in a blue moon. I've been through it before and it ain't easy. So I guess if I were you I'd give the other one a chance first even though she seems like she has a little baggage. You also mention she has tons of guy friends, so if you're the jealous type don't even bother.
You are in quite a pickle. Either way, just choose one and go after her. Don't wait around until the point where they start saying "lets just be friends"
 

Mustangrrl

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<< put 2 and 2 together... jealous girl, tons of men hanging around = attention whore >>

Exactly. The only advantage I can see is that she's across campus, I wouldn't choose pooty based on convenience.

I'd pick #1, she sounds nice, and 2 1/2 hrs isn't that big of a deal, especially if someone is worth the drive/flight.
~robyn
 

NFS4

No Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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<< NFS4, since almost all your posts are about new news items, is this another Skoorb Effect post? It could very well be....couldn't it?


Anyway, you've known girl #2 longer, but she has many ex people. You don't know girl #1 as much, do you? That's the thing, you don't know them equally well, as far as I can tell from reading the post above.
>>


I post about more than just news. I also post tons of stuff about cars/trucks/SUVs in OT

And what's the Skoorb effect?:Q
 

Hayabusa Rider

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Man gimme a tough one willya? Here's how you pick one. Talk to each and turn the conversation towards cars. The one with the best taste wins! See that wasn't so hard now was it?
 
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