Originally posted by: palehorse
I'm all for gay marriage, but I'm pretty damn sure this form of protest didn't gain them any additional support... if anything, it will likely result in even more religious folks jumping up to fight against gay marriage. And, trust me, that's a sleeping giant the gays don't want to wake. What they've seen so far is mild to what they'd see if they accidentally anger the entire religious community. I'm not sure of the exact figures, but I'm pretty sure religious folks outnumber gays by a very large margin.
Right or wrong, there are much better ways to make their point...
Agreed, Although I'm sure gays are tired of being treated like sub-humans at every turn by the supossed tolerant evangelical christians of this country, this is not the way to move your cause forward.
I don't really see the point in peaceful street protesting either. It doesn't change anybody's mind, it just preaches to the converted; at best it could be argued to raise some awareness and allows gays and allies to let off some frustration.
What I would rather see instead:
- more initiatives to propose state and federal level non-discrimination laws. Many people do not realize that you can legally be fired in many states for being openly gay.
-dissemination of concise literature via bulletin boards and info booths with information and websites that make reasoned and logical arguments rather than pleading victimhood.
-televised debate of the issue with reasonable participants- not just "taking it for granted intelligent people agree with us" jokes on The Daily Show, or the usual sideshow people (Big Gay Al versus Bible Beatin' Betty, neither of whom seem capable of even recognizing a good argument to support their cause) on pseudojournalist cable news shows but actual coherent, informed people capable of reasoned discussion and not emotional appeals and ranting
-perhaps the biggest one- More people need to know who Paul Cameron is and his studies. Which are at the bottom of the vast majority if not all "studies show gays are 482% more likely to murder their partners while strung out on heroine after molesting their foster children" arguments. They are complete and total BULLSHIT. Even Bill Bennett , a conservative opponent of gay marriage and gay adoption, apologized for using one of Cameron's studies once it was brought to his attention, and he's so easily refuted that to
google his name brings up
refutation sites before his own site, and yet Arkansas and other states have used his "studies" to ban gays being adoptive or foster parents.
I haven't met many gays who know who Cameron and the Family Research Institute are, and watching Anderson Cooper the other night a FRI spokesperson was brought on as if he was representing a genuine organization that isn't just stricly organized to fund homophobic bullshit studies. The opposing guy tried to bring this up but it's hard to do in a 3 second soundbyte. I wish that Cooper or John Stossel or even O'Reilly (who is fairly moderate on gay issues) or The Daily Show even would do an expose to expose and dispel the lies of this one organization, because while the Phelps's give better geek show airplay they're no real danger except to perhaps a few people whose relative's funerals they picket; Nobody takes the Phelp's seriously, but they take Cameron seriously.
The Cameron issue should be a big one with the Gay community because while Phelps is a total nutcase and identified as such even by most hardcore evangelicals, Cameron is fucking dangerous and has done and continues to do real and widespread legal harm. The man was censured and expelled from the American Psychological Association not for "challenging the orthodoxy" as he and some of his supporters claim but for demonstrable LYING in his research and making fraudulent claims. No respected peer-reviewed psychology or child development or sociology publications have ever published his works- they're published in vanity publications like Adolescence (a journal whose peer review process is "did the check clear?" and that Cameron himself has slammed) or in pamphlet forms published by Cameron's own institute, and while he usually has copious endnotes and bibliographies the incendiary claims made are all self referential;
for example, he'll cite a study that shows gays are 10 x more likely to be pedophiles or commit domestic violence but never mention that:
1- he himself wrote that study
2- the means and methods of his statistical analysis are somewhere between ridiculous and flat out made-up
3- not a single solitary statistical sociological study ever undertaken by any researchers who were not funded by and in the employ of an ultra-right wing homophobic organization have ever demonstrated anything remotely similar and
4- in fact the studies that have been undertaken by respectable and objective researchers at top level research institutes in the U.S. and abroad have show demonstrably the opposite (gays are less likely to be pedophiles or to commit domestic violence and that children raised by lesbian and gay male couples have no more gender confusion and are no more likely to be gay themselves than children raised by heterosexual couples or single parents).