You're essentially spot on. Parents send their kids off to the babysitter...I mean school so both can work. They expect the teacher to open the child's skull and pour in knowledge and don't bother to check to see if the kid has done their homework...or if it's correct. Many object to their precious little snowflake even having homework.
not always the case, IMXP. And IMXP, I have many anecdotes from others that have a similar XP.
Many parents do take an active role,even while working multiple jobs to put food on the table.
These parents trust schools with a child’s mental and physical well-being many hours a day, and to install basic principals and knowledge that transition a child into productive adulthood.
this probably works the majority of the time, unless your child has a learning disability that causes problems.
to a school district, learning disabilities = money. While teachers are willing to accommodate, school admins are basically bean counters who won’t put up unless they have to.
parents who get involved in the appropriate capacity help their child, parents who over step can hurt others.
Americans parents are likely to be the latter in some areas, and the former is others.
there’s no one single solution, except to educate people about how education actually works in theory and practice
edit: and the two working parent thing is designed and implemented by the oligarchy 50 years ago. It was deemed necessary after the 50's-60's where people had too much time on their hands to facilitate social change.