Yes you are correct - it is H13SSL-NT with 10 gbits! Good opportunity to kick Broadcom networking here - Intel far more compatible, its 10 gbits SFP card was detected during install just fine.
It's the last Windows server OS that has NO per core licensing, so when using it with 96 cores it's pretty cost effective - the price of current Windows core packs will be close or higher to cost of MB+CPU+memory. Windows 2012 R2 supports NVMes, can in theory support up to 255 cores too - so savings might be even higher with future processors.
Having said all that the next destination will be Linux - that installed perfectly with default BIOS settings...
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One important thing to add here - despite lack of chipset drives Windows 2012 R2 seem to be able to lower clocks when idle to reduce power usage, so it does not have to run at max level all the time, in fact this is where one of the glitches seem to be (it is present also on supported EPYC 7002s) - you have to put system into Balanced Mode in order to get clock boosting, if put into Performance then for some reason it will stick to BASE frequency, not a biggie.