MrSquished
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- Jan 14, 2013
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The mindset of a 40 year old and a 29 year old are just too far apart to make it work for most people IMO. I'm only 35 now and my wife is 33 and even just that little age difference we are quite a bit different in our mindsets. Obviously some of it is just our personalities, but I know in general my mindset from when I was 25 to what it is now at the age of 35 is completely different. Even when I was 30 to now is a lot different.
I'd say that it varies. I think anyone in their early 20's should not date someone 10 years older. But after that it could work. Also I'd take into account that women mature faster than guys, although everyone is different. Therefore, I think a woman dating an older guy is more likely to succeed. I was 39 and she was 29. We got along famously on the mental tip. At 29 I would not have been ready mentally to date a 39 year old female IMO
Just a thougt.