Originally posted by: fbrdphreak
I'm not entirely sure what happened, but sometime yesterday she became really really pissed at me and won't talk to me abou what is wrong. Damn women.
It started as we were chatting on AIM in classes and she said I could probly guess what she got me for V-Day. I told her I only had one guess (a new weight bar, sold the 7-footer 'cuz its too big and I need a 4-5 foot bar) because she was asking me questions about what kind of bar to get the other night. I told her I hoped she didn't get me that because you don't get your SO something "practical" like that for V-Day, you get/do something that just puts a smile on the person's face, you know like "sweet" and sh!t.
Well she seemed to get irritated at that point, said something about "its the amt of thought you put into the gift." I again explained that I just meant a weight bar isn't an appropriate V-Day gift, but of course it didn't get through. I don't know if she got me the bar or not, but she definitely got pissed. I made a comment about "and yet again i've done something wrong" and told her to just sleep on the couch, because she's been finding sh!t to be pissed at me about a lot lately.
Now she refuses to talk to me about wtf happened, why she actually slept on the couch (other than to be a bitch), or explain why she's so damn pissed off. If she's making this damn big of a deal because she bought me something I don't think is the right kind of gift for V-day, I'm gonna be pissed myself. This is just ****** ridiculous. When do you say enough is enough after 4.5 years?
EDIT Oh yeah, and we were planning to celebrate V-Day this weekend since we're both busy on the actual day; she told me she has no desire to go out, to give me presents, or to receive my presents. Talk about a damn drama queen
Originally posted by: toekramp
you're an ass
Originally posted by: sourceninja
Stick to your guns man. Seriously if telling someone the truth pisses them off then who needs them. If my wife looks fat in something and she asks, I tell her. If I dont like something I will comment on it. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. Its not worth suger coating everything just to get some. Thats why god made beer.
Originally posted by: step-dawg
I didn't bother reading all the replies, so I'm probably repeating but:
A). You're a Fscking Ass.
B). You're probably gay. This is from the "V-day is a time for sweet gifts..." comment. That only applies to girls. Since when do guys want sweet unpractical gifts over a thoughtful useful gift that you ACTUALLY wanted!! Wtf is wrong with you?
C). You don't deserve the girl.
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Useful gifts are the best! Why would you want some crap that's going to make you happy for 2 seconds? I'm with the girl on this one.
Originally posted by: yowolabi
I swear if you don't post soon about how you made it up to her.... i'm going to find her number and then I'm going to make it up to her instead.
Originally posted by: fbrdphreak
I know!Originally posted by: toekramp
you're an ass
I agree at some level, and I wouldn't like make a big deal about it; I'm not that much of an ass. Its just that we don't have a lot of opportunities to be a "couple." We're both full time students, both have jobs, and now her 17 year old sister is living with us in a 2-story 1200 sq ft condo. That doesn't leave much time for "us" and I really wanted this weekend to be....romantic? Not quite the word I'm looking for, but I think you get my drift. I bought her a pretty sexy outfit from VS (pants, top, underwear ) and I was really excited about that.Originally posted by: jaedaliu
i'd be happy if i got something i actually wanted as a gift.
i'd be happy if i got something useful as a gift.
don't give into the media hype!
my 2 cents. I'm buying my girlfriend a bicycle for v-day (i was going to get her new brakes, but she got them fixed already)
She's not "romantic" or anything like that, in any way. For example, I wanted to go to a nice restaurant (partially as that kind of fits the nice clothes thing) for V-Day (doesn't everyone?), but she wanted to go to Fuddruckers.
Originally posted by: sourceninja
Stick to your guns man. Seriously if telling someone the truth pisses them off then who needs them. If my wife looks fat in something and she asks, I tell her. If I dont like something I will comment on it. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. Its not worth suger coating everything just to get some. Thats why god made beer.
Originally posted by: fbrdphreak
Jesus christ you people don't give up!
Update:
She stopped being so bitchy after a little bit.
I apologized. She stopped dramatizing.
I gave her V-Day outfit (which cost over $100 for the poster who mentioned it...), she gave me weight bar (and made the comment that she could put "flowers and hearts" on it if I wanted, LOL what a bitch )
We went to Fuddruckers last Sat night to celebrate V-Day as she has class late tonight (And she's not fat, hasn't been to Fuddruckers in about 2 years...)
No loss of poon privileges
When she gets home tonight gonna take advantage of the poon privileges again
I never disagreed I was being an ass, I guess I just underestimated the power of every prick on ATOT to come in and tell me