Girl problem: What should I do?

[Kelvrick]

Again, I say we need a place for us to talk about girl/guy *i added that for you girls out there* problems.

Here's the original thread. link

To bring you up to speed, I've been planning to ask her out, but I've been getting the feeling she doesnt like me anymore. Of course, her friend is still telling me to ask her out, so I finally ask her if she wants to go see Serendipity this weekend. I didn't mention date, but I guess its a date. She went home for the weekend and was coming back today, so I said I'll clear out my schedule so call me when she gets back and we'll go out. Anyway, so I wait the whole day and I just started talking to her on aim a few minutes ago. here's the con:

Kelvrick (8:56:39 PM): hi
girl (8:56:48 PM): hey *my name here*! what's up?

Kelvrick (8:57:01 PM): nothin much
girl (8:57:21 PM): what'd u do this weekend?
Kelvrick (8:57:29 PM): nothing
Kelvrick (8:58:12 PM): i guess you forgot
girl (8:58:13 PM): lol
girl (8:58:21 PM): oh
girl (8:58:24 PM): oh!

girl (8:58:30 PM): :-(
girl (8:58:42 PM): i got back kinda late
Kelvrick (8:58:59 PM): a call would have been nice
girl (8:59:34 PM): i know i'm sorry :-( i forgot
Kelvrick (9:00:07 PM): yea, ok
girl (9:01:52 PM): were you waiting the whole day?
girl (9:01:56 PM): god i feel bad
Kelvrick (9:02:28 PM): its ok
girl (9:03:41 PM): we'll go see it this week
Kelvrick (9:06:11 PM): whenever you're free
girl (9:07:59 PM): ok
girl (9:08:02 PM): i'm sorry
girl (9:08:03 PM): i feel really bad
girl (9:08:44 PM): i can't believe i forgot..and i know i get pissed whenever my friend forgets

Anyway, should I buy this? I kinda like this other girl in my dorm building and want to ask her out. Of course, I'm still kinda confused. Any advice? Of course, she added the "i know i get pissed whenever my friend forgets" in there. Does that mean she didn't think it was a date? Should I just move on?

 

[Cattlegod]

they don't just forget for no reason, doesn't sound like she is interested in you, cause if she was she wouldn't have forgotten.



sorry... can't resist... pics?

 

[Alienwho]

I can smell BS from a mile away.

Shovel it up.

 

[gopunk]

i hate flakes... move on. if she really liked you, she wouldn't have forgotten. think about it. if some chick you were really into asked you to see a movie, would you forget? didn't think so.

 

[Kelvrick]

More convo. No reply yet.

girl (9:14:00 PM): you're mad b/c you're not talking
girl (9:14:13 PM): you always talk
Kelvrick (9:14:31 PM): can i ask you something?
girl (9:14:41 PM): ok
Kelvrick (9:14:49 PM): what did you consider today?
girl (9:15:01 PM): consider?
Kelvrick (9:15:07 PM): yes
Kelvrick (9:15:10 PM): what did you think it was
Kelvrick (9:15:17 PM): like a date, or a night out, or what
girl (9:15:51 PM): i dunno ..i thought we were just seeing a movie
Kelvrick (9:16:05 PM): ok
Kelvrick (9:16:12 PM): would you have said yes if it was a date?

 

[gopunk]

no reply = bad.

 

[Kelvrick]

girl (9:19:18 PM): ah maybe, *my name here*
girl (9:19:21 PM): I dunno
girl (9:19:27 PM): was it a date?
girl (9:19:52 PM): i didn't know
girl (9:19:57 PM): i thought you were just suggesting we go today
girl (9:20:01 PM): that'
girl (9:20:09 PM): why i forgot
Kelvrick (9:20:10 PM): ok, fine
Kelvrick (9:20:22 PM): but you didn't answer the question

 

[TheBullGod]

<< I can smell BS from a mile away.

Shovel it up. >>



Amen

 

[Ronstang]

Many years ago I had a similar thing happen to me. I went to pick up this girl for a first date, one which she pressured me for, and she was not home. An hour later she was not home. I had been sitting there with her younger sister for an your, and she was rell hot also, so I took the little sister out to see a movie. I never gave the older of the two another chance. Boy was she pissed when I came home from the movie woth her little sis, ha ha.

 

[Harv22222]

Called her out and she wasn't ready for it, lol. Like your approach seriously. Straight and to the point, don't beat around the bush and wonder about all those "what if's" If she doens't talk to you again, its obvious. But if you guys still talk, she may not have thought of the movie as a date and is still interested.

Its kind of hard to tell, you and her talk all the times, and consider yourselves good friends?

 

[Kelvrick]

girl (9:22:08 PM): well if it was a "date", then no, b/c i want us to just be friends
Kelvrick (9:22:17 PM): ok
Kelvrick (9:22:20 PM): thats all i wanted to know

Ok. I need to do some serious gaming. Maybe a 50-0 streak in CS will make me feel better. After that, I'm dragging some of the guys to go somewhere.

 

[Ender]

Hi Son.. err Kelvrick

I think you should wait it out or something, and if she isn't interested and just wants to be friends then move on.

 

[Mustangrrl]

She is not interested. She should have just said so in the first place, biatch. It's chicks like this that give all women a bad reputation--I, on the other hand, am very open and honest, and maybe a little aggressive. Plus, I hate people that send little fragmented IMs, can't they type the whole g/d sentence before sending?!
~robyn

 

[Ender]

Damnit! That sucks man

Wish you best of luck

 

[Rent]

These games.. ugh..

She obviously playing her version of "hard to get" but I would say "fvck it, this is not worth my time" Dating needs to be mutual, not her just stringing you along.

I'd tell her, "Yah, I'm pissed cause I like u but if this is the way its gonna be, then I'll go elsewhere" and you should see her true colors then..

 

[Harv22222]

By no means rule out being friends. I'm sure many people have been good friends with someone then something more happened so.. Don't rule out anything, but don't also wait. Return to the field and start playing again

 

[Kelvrick]

<< Hi Son.. err Kelvrick

I think you should wait it out or something, and if she isn't interested and just wants to be friends then move on. >>



Yes, my name is Son.

 

[Rent]

That happend to me... and I got fvckin dumped :|



<< By no means rule out being friends. I'm sure many people have been good friends with someone then something more happened so.. Don't rule out anything, but don't also wait. Return to the field and start playing again >>

 

[KeyserSoze]

<< Plus, I hate people that send little fragmented IMs, can't they type the whole g/d sentence before sending?! >>



LOL, me too.

Makes me mad, AND I hate it when they are not capitalized or anything, bad grammar erks me too.


EDIT: Yeah, sorry to hear about that. It's always tough.


KeyserSoze

 

[Harv22222]

Sorry to hear Radeon...Its happened both ways for me so I know the feeling.

 

[Kelvrick]

<< LOL, me too.

Makes me mad, AND I hate it when they are not capitalized or anything, bad grammar erks me too.



KeyserSoze >>



Haha. I'll be sure to never talk to you on aim, Keyser.

 

[KeyserSoze]

IM?


Come on Kelvrick, you kno you want to?


I'm VipBadBoy. Drop me a line.




KeyserSoze

 

[Ender]

<< can't they type the whole g/d sentence before sending?! >>



Dosen't seem like you can type out the full 'g/d' sentence either eh?

 

[Rent]

Its so tempting to use that



<< IM?


Come on Kelvrick, you kno you want to?


I'm VipBadBoy. Drop me a line.




KeyserSoze >>

 

[LaBang]

yo kelvrick, what dorm are you in?