bigbootydaddy,
You aren't alone dude.
Some of the mistakes that I made , hopefully you won't or haven't , Remember your still friends , you allways will be...You can still hit on your ex , it's all in good fun but don't go to far.
Call her often , Don't bug her , Don't make things worse .... Get to know her better let her get to know you better.
I hope you get her back.
~X~