Girlfriend broke up with me over early acceptance to university

[UnatcoAgent]

The school I was accepted to earlier today is in Toronto, I am in Ottawa. My girlfriend of nearly 2 years made me choose between the school in Toronto and a school at home to stay with her. The school at home would be ok, but the one in T.O is x1000 better. Anyway I told her I cannot possibly choose or rule out the one in T.O and out the door she sent me. Called me an hour later crying, but I cannot tell her I will just rule out the school because I cannot do it, and I have total faith in our relationship lasting through it. I look at it as a huge sacrifice for a few years but how good it would be after. Anyway regardless of how I look at it she will not continue our relationship now.

I don't know how to react really, I will talk to her again tomorrow but I know I will not be able to just rule out the school. Oh the complexities of life.

 

[Crimzon]

Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: Crimzon
Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: Crimzon
Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

 

[her209]

Damn, what a selfish b!atch.

 

[UnatcoAgent]

Originally posted by: Crimzon
Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

That is what everyone has told me. I dont know though, it is so hard.

 

[helloedchen]

good move, if she is smart, she'll support your decision.

 

[Narse]

Originally posted by: her209
Damn, what a selfish b!atch.

yup

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: Crimzon
Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

 

[scorp00]

Same thing happened to me pretty much. Girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because I went to a college 2 hours away. College is much more fun single though.

 

[Passions]

No, if you TRULY loved her you would goto the lesser school and stay with her. Doesn't love mean anything to you? Don't you care? Stop being selfish jerk and learn how to sacrifice in a relationship.


sarcasm++.

 

[Angrymarshmello]

I agree with the selfish biatch statement. Chances are after starting college (which is a whole new world) you'll meet new and different people and more than likely you won't end up together anyway. Your future is more important than a future with someone you'll probably never have a future with. (Especially based off this - she throws a hissy fit b/c she thinks she owns you)

 

[kyu614]

why cant she move to toronto with you?

 

[fatbaby]

Originally posted by: BOBBY RIBS
No, if you TRULY loved her you would goto the lesser school and stay with her. Doesn't love mean anything to you? Don't you care? Stop being selfish jerk and learn how to sacrifice in a relationship.

If she truely loved him, she would let him go to that far away university. Doesn't love mean anything to her? Doesn't she care? She should stop being a selfish biatch and learn how to sacrifice in a relationship.

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: Magnum375

Originally posted by: Crimzon
Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

That is what everyone has told me. I dont know though, it is so hard.

Don't worry....you're young....you'll find someone else to use it on/in.

 

[m2kewl]

Originally posted by: Crimzon
Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

 

[boyRacer]

yep... if you did stay with her and pick the crappier school... you'll shoot yourself if you guys ever break up and you regret not going to your first choice.

 

[Passions]

lol fatbaby, it was just a joke. Don't worry, you'll meet plenty of girls in college and I don't think any girl is worth your education/career.

 

[Comp625]

If one or both parties cannot maintain a relationship from miles away, then I don't know if you 2 were exactly "meant to be."

 

[kami]

Yeah she is selfish but in the end she's just doing the two of ya a favor.

Long distance relationships are super hard. Long distance relationships while both parties are in college? Um, yeah...right...

 

[machintos]

Choose education over girls. Relationship can be broken off but education lasts a lifetime.

 

[Coolone]

Originally posted by: Crimzon
Don't rule out school. Good call. Too young to be sacrificing education for a relationship.

 

[fatbaby]

ahh yes, but the smart man would tell her his acceptance after he has tapped that booty one last time

 

[UnatcoAgent]

Thank you very much guys, you really can see how this is. I hate how life plays out sometimes.

 

[mAdD INDIAN]

So wat you unversity are you going to in Toronto? UofT? What program?

A few members of this forum (myself include) attend UofT for Comp Eng.