i like the point hawk brings up...if you're not planning on marrying her, then obviously you don't have the love needed to stay together for any serious lengths of time, so y be so upset at the clothes and mothering??? cut your losses if its that big of a deal to you, otherwise, deal with it or tell her that you're your own man.
as far as you being confused as to how people react to you on the board, you seem very suprised that when you bring up a very serious charge against a very respected member of society without any proof that can be pointed to, especially in light of many many refutes from much more reliable sources than yourself or your mom that the vast majority of the board responds to you in a negative way.
as someone else said, get over it and grow up, learn how to deal with issues in a mature fashion, not lashing out at everything around you. and dropping to personal attacks and insults. i'd hate to see what you'd do if anyone on this board was around when you got this pissed off at them for disagreeing and calling your claim.