Girls Stress Me Out

[JasonXtreme]

This sucks.. Girls stress me out so much. I just met this one girl and shes been giving alot of mixed signals. At first she was all affectionate & then she kinda stopped. I held off about a week of talking to her (she said she had alot going on that week) and when I did finally get ahold of her she was happy I did & wanted to hang out.

She talks about how she hates being single & then about how shes afraid to be affectionate because she doesn't want to hurt anyone. I have only known her for about three weeks so it's still early. I guess I just like to know whats going on.. As bad as it sounds I don't want to be wasting my time. I hate being single too and at the moment I know a few girls who like me & I don't want to completely blow them off for this one girl who I like alot if it's not going to go anywhere. Than again I don't want to be jumping around girls trying to be a player. I'm just venting here. I get attached quickly I guess.

 

[acemcmac]

you're investing too much in that nonsense... the girl that crashed my place the other night and b!tched me out just saw the haircut I got over lunch and told me I looked cute as she stroked my chest in the elevator..... see? its all about self image....

if she drops by tonight, I'll probably ask her to leave before I go to bed just to spite her back. girls = headache, but you cant have a heterosexual relationship without them

 

[HardcoreRobot]

dont waste your time getting stressed over stupid hos. doesnt matter if shes hot.

 

[simms]

Signals are good... it actually sounds alright. It's not that bad. Just be sympathetic, and in a few weeks talk to her about how you feel about it. You like her, and it might sound like she likes you. I'd say this is a good shot.. go for it.

She's HINTING that she doesnt' want to be SINGLE to YOU. hmmm...

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: acemcmac
you're investing too much in that nonsense... the girl that crashed my place the other night and b!tched me out just saw the haircut I got over lunch and told me I looked cute as she stroked my chest in the elevator..... see? its all about self image....

if she drops by tonight, I'll probably ask her to leave before I go to bed just to spite her back. girls = headache, but you cant have a heterosexual relationship without them

Don't forget to tap it before you ask her to leave

 

[azazyel]

Originally posted by: JasonXtreme

She talks about how she hates being single & then about how shes afraid to be affectionate because she doesn't want to hurt anyone.

Sounds like she might just want a f#ck friend. Not a bad deal if you can make it work.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

Originally posted by: simms
Signals are good... it actually sounds alright. It's not that bad. Just be sympathetic, and in a few weeks talk to her about how you feel about it. You like her, and it might sound like she likes you. I'd say this is a good shot.. go for it.

She's HINTING that she doesnt' want to be SINGLE to YOU. hmmm...

shes insecure and wants attention. if she wanted to hint she would get on the nuts instead of lamenting about being single. you can give it time to see what happens, but definitely dont stress. this girl will get ur balls in a jar.

 

[JasonXtreme]

Originally posted by: simms
Signals are good... it actually sounds alright. It's not that bad. Just be sympathetic, and in a few weeks talk to her about how you feel about it. You like her, and it might sound like she likes you. I'd say this is a good shot.. go for it.

She's HINTING that she doesnt' want to be SINGLE to YOU. hmmm...

Yeah.. She said she would probably call me last night and never did. I kinda waited for her call. I'm a loser like that I guess. I called her earlier but she wasnt home. She has caller ID so she does know I called.

 

[JasonXtreme]

Originally posted by: azazyel

Originally posted by: JasonXtreme

She talks about how she hates being single & then about how shes afraid to be affectionate because she doesn't want to hurt anyone.

Sounds like she might just want a f#ck friend. Not a bad deal if you can make it work.

Nah.. definately not. Shes talked to me about alot, and from what I understand thats the last thing she wants is just a f@ck buddy.

 

[PingSpike]

That mixed signals stuff is horsesh|t. I can't stand those games. If you want to date me, lets date, don't give me that wishy washy I-like-you-oops-now-maybe-I-don't crap.

I would lessen interest in her, not totally blow her off. And see whats going on with the other girls. If they're more upfront, just stop calling the other one entirely.

 

[moshquerade]

you are trying too hard. let them come to you, show some confidence in yourself.
believe me the harder a guy is to get the more i work to get him.

 

[Shelly21]

YAGT.org is your friend.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
you are trying too hard. let them come to you, show some confidence in yourself.
believe me the harder a guy is to get the more i work to get him.

That makes absolutely no sense at all, but it is concurrent with how most women work. They want to you to not really give a sh|t about them before they'll consider being interested in you.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade
you are trying too hard. let them come to you, show some confidence in yourself.
believe me the harder a guy is to get the more i work to get him.

That makes absolutely no sense at all, but it is concurrent with how most women work. They want to you to not really give a sh|t about them before they'll consider being interested in you.

didn't say it made sense, did i?

 

[imported_vr6]

Originally posted by: Shelly21
YAGT.org is your friend.

amen.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

go away

 

[Mo0o]

In the end, you're doing better than skywalker

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade
you are trying too hard. let them come to you, show some confidence in yourself.
believe me the harder a guy is to get the more i work to get him.

That makes absolutely no sense at all, but it is concurrent with how most women work. They want to you to not really give a sh|t about them before they'll consider being interested in you.

didn't say it made sense, did i?

Nope. The most important lesson I learned about women was they make no sense, so stop trying to make sense of their actions. There is only one logical conclusion that can be drawn from their actions; that they are creatures devoid of rationality and ruled by gut emotion.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade
you are trying too hard. let them come to you, show some confidence in yourself.
believe me the harder a guy is to get the more i work to get him.

That makes absolutely no sense at all, but it is concurrent with how most women work. They want to you to not really give a sh|t about them before they'll consider being interested in you.

didn't say it made sense, did i?

Nope. The most important lesson I learned about women was they make no sense, so stop trying to make sense of their actions. There is only one logical conclusion that can be drawn from their actions; that they are creatures devoid of rationality and ruled by gut emotion.

eh, don't go that far. men aren't perfect either.
but face it, you can't live with 'em, and you can't live without 'em.

 

[ggavinmoss]

Have you tried holding her hand? I hear that makes everything better.

-geoff

 

[azazyel]

Originally posted by: Mo0o
In the end, you're doing better than skywalker

DON'T SAY THAT NAME! What are you doing tring to curse us?

 

[imported_vr6]

Originally posted by: ggavinmoss
Have you tried holding her hand? I hear that makes everything better.

-geoff

Next time you see her do this..

You : I am gonna try something new...... Let me know if you don't like it.
Her: responds.
You Stick out your..

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: ggavinmoss
Have you tried holding her hand? I hear that makes everything better.

-geoff

Only if you make that simple gesture more complicated than a space shuttle launch.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Kwan1

Originally posted by: ggavinmoss
Have you tried holding her hand? I hear that makes everything better.

-geoff

Next time you see her do this..

You : I am gonna try something new...... Let me know if you don't like it.
Her: responds.
You Stick out your..

That story would have been a lot more entertaining to read if you replaced "Stick out your hand" with "Take off your bra" or something equally likely to get the protagonist slapped.

 

[JasonXtreme]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: ggavinmoss
Have you tried holding her hand? I hear that makes everything better.

-geoff

Only if you make that simple gesture more complicated than a space shuttle launch.

We've held hands before. lol, if that means anything