Girls suck

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Leros

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Jul 11, 2004
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Here is some serious advice.

The easiest way to get over a girl is to cut off all contact with them. If you keep talking to them, you will rekindle your feelings for each other, but the problem that made you break up will still be there. You might get back together and then break up again, causing more pain. I learned this the hard way, trust me.

So that being said, if you didn't want to talk to her, why did you answer the phone when she called?
 
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Originally posted by: SLCentral
So, yeah, first off, I'm 16, so flame away.

My girlfriend of two years and I broke up about a month ago becuase she changed her mind about how she felt about me. Okay. She then went away for the whole summer, and is pretty much unreachable. She brought her phone, but it seldomly works, and isn't "allowed." At first, we talked everyday over the phone while she was gone, but I realized that in order for me to be able to move on from her, I had to just stop talking to her. I still had hope we would get back together, which was keeping me immune from what was going on with her.

So, I tell her just to back off and let me get over her. Reasonable request. She stops talking to me for a little less then two weeks. During that time, I was really able to start thinking about things other then her, get out of the house and hang out with friends, and in general really start to just move on, get interested in other girls, etc.

Except tonight, she called, and asked me how I was. I told her that I was really trying to get over her, and I asked her not to call before. She apologized, and we hung up. Do girls not understand what "Please don't call me for a while" means? Does two weeks seem like enough time to wait until I'm over her and ready to "just be friends?"

And yes, I'm sure she didn't want to get back together. Her best friend talked to her after, and she called in hope of us becoming frends again.

Girls suck.

Chin up, young fella. I'm not trying to be patronizing, just don't feel so bad - it'll get better. I had my first real love when I was 16 and we dated until I was 23. that breakup was rough and I'm still a bit jaded after that, so I understand how you feel. but remember this - you have to keep trying until you find that one. some people find that one after 3 relationship.. some find that one after 99.. Just make sure you have fun those 99 times too
 

Blazin Trav

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Dec 14, 2004
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Originally posted by: SLCentral
Originally posted by: Blazin Trav
Oh come on, that hardly seems that big of a deal.

The fact is that if she actually cared how I was, she would have respected what I asked her...not to call, so I could just get over her. I'm sure you've been in the position of losing a girl after a long period of time, and how down you end up feeling.

I got over it like the man I was.
 

Howard

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Oct 14, 1999
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I fail to see a problem.

Then again, I didn't read the post. Not all of it, anyway.

Actually I did. I think. Maybe not.

Anyway, I don't see a problem. Carry on.
 
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