Slowly getting into cooking, myself. Have one stainless steel pan so far. I have absolutely no plans to buy non-stick, not even ceramic. Part of the reason is toxicity, the other is durability. I want something I can accidentally overheat or abuse with no major consequences -- leave a Teflon pan on stove accidentally = nuked house with toxic smoke. The ceramic pans look okay but reviews suggest that they don't stay non-stick for years and years.
Everything I've ever heard and read says if there's one thing you don't do, is put soap on cast iron
I'm about to buy a cast-iron pan or two, and a lot of stuff I've read online says to not use soap. However, I gifted someone a cast-iron 10" skillet years ago. She uses soap after every use but no rust has been noticed yet. What she also does, right after washing, is put it on the stove, heat it to dry off the water, and then oil it. And the skillet never soaks in the sink. It stays on the stove until it's ready to be soaped and rinsed -- she's had carbon steel cookware her entire life so knows the drill.
The new cast iron pan(s) I get are definitely going to get soaped before the first use. Fingers crossed they don't rust. After the first wash, I may stick to hot water and scrubbing.