Got my first rejection

[Juice Box]

Yo, im 17 and ive liked this girl forever, just never really able to tell her. I finnaly get a chance, and spill the beans while giving her a ride home (this was my first time doing so, ever) and she simply put it "I cant say i feel the same way as you, but we can still be friends" It was very hard to hear that, but I knew if I never told her how i felt, I would beat myself up for the rest of my life. Im sure I will eventually get over it, but i still feel terrible.


Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend

Edit 2: This same friend strongly now urges me to ask her out to get something to eat after the football game tomorrow night, should I do it, it would give me a chance to explain why I was acting to wierd the other day

FINAL EDIT: Im letting it go, its not worth it to make her feel uncomfortable anymore, as well as myself. I think ill feel a lot better not trying to get something i cant ever obtain. I dont think a relationship is right for me now anyways, I just needed to tell her how i felt.

 

[waggy]

get used to it.

you will gte rejection a LOT over the years.

 

[PHiuR]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Yo, im 17 and ive liked this girl forever, just never really able to tell her. I finnaly get a chance, and spill the beans while giving her a ride home (this was my first time doing so, ever) and she simply put it "I cant say i feel the same way as you, but we can still be friends" It was very hard to hear that, but I knew if I never told her how i felt, I would beat myself up for the rest of my life. Im sure I will eventually get over it, but i still feel terrible.

its okay... ill buy you a beer...:beer: ::cheers to girls sucking::

 

[mobobuff]

Haha. I'd been rejected a dozen times before I was 17. Don't feel bad.

 

[Ryan]

HAHA.

 

[z0mb13]

fleshligt > girls anyways!

 

[welst10]

:thumbsup: for your try.

 

[Juice Box]

I really wanted to get to know her better to. Should I take her friends comment and not do anything about it, or should I actually ask her to do something?

 

[IHYLN]

Originally posted by: z0mb13
fleshligt > girls anyways!

says zomb13, the CEO and vice president of fleshlight Inc.

 

[azazyel]

:beer:

Cheers mate at least you showed some balls.

 

[PanzerIV]

Like Waggy said, get used to it man. You will have good times and bad times just take the punches and keep on with life.

 

[Juice Box]

Originally posted by: azazyel
:beer:

Cheers mate at least you showed some balls.

yeah, its about time, this has been on my mind for like 2 years

 

[mobobuff]

You need to back off, be friends, pretend you never even asked. Don't be clingy.

 

[z0mb13]

Originally posted by: IHYLN

Originally posted by: z0mb13
fleshligt > girls anyways!

says zomb13, the CEO and vice president of fleshlight Inc.

rofl I still cant get fleshlight out of my mind..

 

[JDub02]

i went through 2 years of rejections to finally get a girl. gotta keep trying.

as a side note, my smoothness apparently sucks.

 

[amish]

don't bother, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[acemcmac]

Originally posted by: welst10
:thumbsup: for your try.

for sure

I can't speak to having been rejected too often, but hey.. you've gotta have the self confidence to put yourself out like that or you can never truly live

its her loss, not yours. Hell, have a handle of JD on me way to be a man about it :beer:

 

[PHiuR]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
I really wanted to get to know her better to. Should I take her friends comment and not do anything about it, or should I actually ask her to do something?

still hang out with her. and show her how great of a guy you are. and then when she comes crawling back...hook up with a different chick YEAH!!!

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
I really wanted to get to know her better to. Should I take her friends comment and not do anything about it, or should I actually ask her to do something?

No, that was her polite way of saying she's not interested in you. You could hang on in the hopes something develops eventually but you would probably be hurting yourself.

 

[Juice Box]

Originally posted by: amish
don't bother, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

yeah, i know, but its Senior Year of High School, i want to make the most out of it

 

[CTrain]

Originally posted by: azazyel
:beer:

Cheers mate at least you showed some balls.

Ditto.
I have no balls.

 

[azazyel]

Stay away from her for a while. Don't let yourself get dragged into the friendship zone! Honestly talk to her occasionally on the phone but keep it short and make sure to talk about other girls.

 

[Juice Box]

Originally posted by: azazyel
Stay away from her for a while. Don't let yourself get dragged into the friendship zone! Honestly talk to her occasionally on the phone but keep it short and make sure to talk about other girls.

I know what you mean, but we really arent people who talk on the phone about stuff, so i dont know if that would happen

 

[Juice Box]

Originally posted by: mobobuff
Haha. I'd been rejected a dozen times before I was 17. Don't feel bad.

thanks, that really helps

 

Congratulations for actaully asking her.