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IHYLN

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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: IHYLN
rofl

what are you laughing at, theres a lot going on here

that you said he has a faithful online girlfriend.. 1000 miles away. sorry that just cracks me up. next time he comes over ask him if hes happy to see you or if he banged her
 

Juice Box

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Originally posted by: gogeeta13
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe he wants to hook up with her?

I thought of that, and hes cool enough he wouldnt do that, anyways, he has a faithful online girlfriend.... that lives 1000 miles away, but that is not a big concern of mine

i want details on that, sounds like a good thread.

what?
 

isekii

Lifer
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Originally posted by: gogeeta13
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe he wants to hook up with her?

I thought of that, and hes cool enough he wouldnt do that, anyways, he has a faithful online girlfriend.... that lives 1000 miles away, but that is not a big concern of mine

i want details on that, sounds like a good thread.

When he means he got you covered.
he'll be tapping ass for the both of you
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
right, sorry lol no pics right now... Im not crazy like that, but yeah, I at least want to ask him if I need to do anything to help his "plan" along, so I dont look like an ass if something happens. I just wish I could let her know my intentions, because, while it may be hard to believe, I am mainly looking for someone i can just talk to thats not a guy friend of mine, because Ive been changing, and need somebody to talk to. The physical stuff isint on my mind at all at this point, and that is not my intentions.
For the love of Benji!!! You are starting to come across and the desperate clingy type. The last thing a girl wants is A: Someone who tries too hard. or B: Someone who is as clingy as that last piece of sh1t hanging onto a poorly placed ass hair after you take a big dump!

 

Juice Box

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yeah, I know what you are saying, I just know when i talked to her I sounded like an ass, and dont want that to be the reason i got turned down. I feel really bad, and kinda want another chance. I think ill try to stop worrying about this, and if my friend is able to do anything, thats cool. But I know he wouldnt do anything like that to me, lets just say hes not like that.
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
yeah, I know what you are saying, I just know when i talked to her I sounded like an ass, and dont want that to be the reason i got turned down. I feel really bad, and kinda want another chance. I think ill try to stop worrying about this, and if my friend is able to do anything, thats cool. But I know he wouldnt do anything like that to me, lets just say hes not like that.
Since you obviously missed it the first time I posted it in this thread....


Unless high school has changed a lot in the 16 years since I graduated there are slutty girls in your school. Am I right? Well......that's the tail you need to be chasing. Trust me, 10 years from now you won't even remember what chick you were banging in high school. Just grab yourself a wild one, enjoy the ride for as long as you can, then move on to the next one. You're too young to be worrying about relationships and all that touchy feely crap. Just bang, bang, bang!
 

bobbybe01

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Look, if a girl is going to reject you simply for getting a little bit heated...I don't think you beat her into a pulp or lost your temper. Sure you may have come across as mean, but we all have done mistakes. If she's not willing to look over a simple mistake, she's not worth your time. Don't depend on your friends either...sounds kinda fishy to me. Unless your bud is gonna get you some booty, leave the drama alone.
 

Juice Box

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Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Look, if a girl is going to reject you simply for getting a little bit heated...I don't think you beat her into a pulp or lost your temper. Sure you may have come across as mean, but we all have done mistakes. If she's not willing to look over a simple mistake, she's not worth your time. Don't depend on your friends either...sounds kinda fishy to me. Unless your bud is gonna get you some booty, leave the drama alone.

I wasn't heated, I just prolly sounded like an ass trying to find the right words in front of her
 

bobbybe01

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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Look, if a girl is going to reject you simply for getting a little bit heated...I don't think you beat her into a pulp or lost your temper. Sure you may have come across as mean, but we all have done mistakes. If she's not willing to look over a simple mistake, she's not worth your time. Don't depend on your friends either...sounds kinda fishy to me. Unless your bud is gonna get you some booty, leave the drama alone.

I wasn't heated, I just prolly sounded like an ass trying to find the right words in front of her


Nothing to worry about then.
 

Juice Box

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Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Look, if a girl is going to reject you simply for getting a little bit heated...I don't think you beat her into a pulp or lost your temper. Sure you may have come across as mean, but we all have done mistakes. If she's not willing to look over a simple mistake, she's not worth your time. Don't depend on your friends either...sounds kinda fishy to me. Unless your bud is gonna get you some booty, leave the drama alone.

I wasn't heated, I just prolly sounded like an ass trying to find the right words in front of her


Nothing to worry about then.

what is that supposed to mean, that she really doesnt know, or what?
 

thelanx

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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Look, if a girl is going to reject you simply for getting a little bit heated...I don't think you beat her into a pulp or lost your temper. Sure you may have come across as mean, but we all have done mistakes. If she's not willing to look over a simple mistake, she's not worth your time. Don't depend on your friends either...sounds kinda fishy to me. Unless your bud is gonna get you some booty, leave the drama alone.

I wasn't heated, I just prolly sounded like an ass trying to find the right words in front of her


Nothing to worry about then.

what is that supposed to mean, that she really doesnt know, or what?

He means it's no big deal, don't worry about it. She won't care about a little stumble, if she does, she's not worth it. Although given your current situation, I'd say don't get your hopes up. Even with your friend's help, chances are not much will change. Just be normal with her, like before you asked, and move on.
 

Juice Box

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Originally posted by: thelanx
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Look, if a girl is going to reject you simply for getting a little bit heated...I don't think you beat her into a pulp or lost your temper. Sure you may have come across as mean, but we all have done mistakes. If she's not willing to look over a simple mistake, she's not worth your time. Don't depend on your friends either...sounds kinda fishy to me. Unless your bud is gonna get you some booty, leave the drama alone.

I wasn't heated, I just prolly sounded like an ass trying to find the right words in front of her


Nothing to worry about then.

what is that supposed to mean, that she really doesnt know, or what?

He means it's no big deal, don't worry about it. She won't care about a little stumble, if she does, she's not worth it. Although given your current situation, I'd say don't get your hopes up. Even with your friend's help, chances are not much will change. Just be normal with her, like before you asked, and move on.

yeah, I hear what you are saying, Ive been talking to ppl that have talked to her, and I dont think things will even work out as friends

 

thelanx

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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
yeah, I hear what you are saying, Ive been talking to ppl that have talked to her, and I dont think things will even work out as friends

If you end up not even friends, then it'll be easier to get over her. If she's always around, you might find it hard to get rid of your feelings for her. Keep your head up high, and go meet more girls. Summer before college, when you've got nothing to do, is the best. As for someone to talk to, why can't you talk to some of your friends. If your male friends won't listen, maybe your female friends will.

 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: thelanx
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Look, if a girl is going to reject you simply for getting a little bit heated...I don't think you beat her into a pulp or lost your temper. Sure you may have come across as mean, but we all have done mistakes. If she's not willing to look over a simple mistake, she's not worth your time. Don't depend on your friends either...sounds kinda fishy to me. Unless your bud is gonna get you some booty, leave the drama alone.

I wasn't heated, I just prolly sounded like an ass trying to find the right words in front of her


Nothing to worry about then.

what is that supposed to mean, that she really doesnt know, or what?

He means it's no big deal, don't worry about it. She won't care about a little stumble, if she does, she's not worth it. Although given your current situation, I'd say don't get your hopes up. Even with your friend's help, chances are not much will change. Just be normal with her, like before you asked, and move on.

yeah, I hear what you are saying, Ive been talking to ppl that have talked to her, and I dont think things will even work out as friends
FOR GOD'S SAKE LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

Zanix

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Originally posted by: CTrain
Originally posted by: azazyel
:beer:

Cheers mate at least you showed some balls.

Ditto.
I have no balls.



"Ohhh NonononoNO GUYS! We all have BIG BALLS! Yes we DOOoooOO! Come on guys! Let'sssss GO!" :richard simmons;
 

Childs

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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Yo, im 17 and ive liked this girl forever, just never really able to tell her. I finnaly get a chance, and spill the beans while giving her a ride home (this was my first time doing so, ever) and she simply put it "I cant say i feel the same way as you, but we can still be friends" It was very hard to hear that, but I knew if I never told her how i felt, I would beat myself up for the rest of my life. Im sure I will eventually get over it, but i still feel terrible.


Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend?


I think I saw this 90210 episode already.
 

bobbybe01

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Here's a tip: don't bring her up at all to your friends. Cause it seems like you're interested in her, and she may think you're desperate.

Like they say...love is like a bird...if you catch it, let it go. If it comes back, set it on fire.
 

PCTweaker5

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Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Here's a tip: don't bring her up at all to your friends. Cause it seems like you're interested in her, and she may think you're desperate.

Like they say...love is like a bird...if you catch it, let it go. If it comes back, set it on fire.

What kind of twisted sayings are you living off of?
 

Juice Box

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I think i made a decision, I have been strongly reccomended to ask her to get something to eat after the game this friday, and depending on her answer, i can get a better judgement on how she feels.
 

venk

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Not you specifically, just the whole social akwardness of that age. Don't sweat it, we all went through it.
 
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