Got my first rejection

[bobbybe01]

Originally posted by: PCTweaker5

Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Here's a tip: don't bring her up at all to your friends. Cause it seems like you're interested in her, and she may think you're desperate.

Like they say...love is like a bird...if you catch it, let it go. If it comes back, set it on fire.

What kind of twisted sayings are you living off of?

Does anything about women make any sense?

 

[PCTweaker5]

Originally posted by: bobbybe01

Originally posted by: PCTweaker5

Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Here's a tip: don't bring her up at all to your friends. Cause it seems like you're interested in her, and she may think you're desperate.

Like they say...love is like a bird...if you catch it, let it go. If it comes back, set it on fire.

What kind of twisted sayings are you living off of?

Does anything about women make any sense?

lol true.

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
I think i made a decision, I have been strongly reccomended to ask her to get something to eat after the game this friday, and depending on her answer, i can get a better judgement on how she feels.

Skywalker part Deux? :Q

 

[cloude27]

relax your 17, if that is the only time you get shot down in your life you'll be doing alot better the most

 

[Gibson486]

i miss being 17.....

 

[HKSturboKID]

guess its back to the five fingers discount again.

 

[Azraele]

Good for you for trying. It's better to try and goof than to never try at all. I would not get your hopes up too high. For now, respect her and work on building a great friendship.

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend?

classic.

 

[Tremulant]

Originally posted by: PanzerIV

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
I think i made a decision, I have been strongly reccomended to ask her to get something to eat after the game this friday, and depending on her answer, i can get a better judgement on how she feels.

Skywalker part Deux? :Q

Skywalker wouldn't have asked. He would've hung his head in shame for lusting over a girl because his understanding of his religion is that you can't be "normal" and want to dance kinky with girls.

I love that dance kinky line, it's just so dumb.

 

[DainBramaged]

You might as well give up...

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Yo, im 17 and ive liked this girl forever, just never really able to tell her. I finnaly get a chance, and spill the beans while giving her a ride home (this was my first time doing so, ever) and she simply put it "I cant say i feel the same way as you, but we can still be friends" It was very hard to hear that, but I knew if I never told her how i felt, I would beat myself up for the rest of my life. Im sure I will eventually get over it, but i still feel terrible.


Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend?

Fact of life... most of us get rejected most of the time...

Which is probably a good thing... if every girl I asked was giving it up... I'd be in trouble....

-Max

 

[UDT89]

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: welst10
Young girsl are stupid and immature. They generally cant tell a good guy from a bad one. They just like superficial stuff. Dont get serious with rejection.

And this is different from older women how exactly?

lol awesome

 

[AccruedExpenditure]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
I think i made a decision, I have been strongly reccomended to ask her to get something to eat after the game this friday, and depending on her answer, i can get a better judgement on how she feels.

OMGWTFBBQPORK

You're an idiot... you should have done this FIRST before confessing that you have a crush on her...

You take her out, have a good time, do it again the next week, maybe twice the week after that, the viola, you have a g/f

 

[effee]

lol, i've been rejected countless times that i've lost track..who cares, its part and parcel

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Yo, im 17 and ive liked this girl forever, just never really able to tell her. I finnaly get a chance, and spill the beans while giving her a ride home (this was my first time doing so, ever) and she simply put it "I cant say i feel the same way as you, but we can still be friends" It was very hard to hear that, but I knew if I never told her how i felt, I would beat myself up for the rest of my life. Im sure I will eventually get over it, but i still feel terrible.


Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend?

He's probably just going to make sure she wasn't "horrified" and is still actually cool with you. Some women can get freaked out over stuff like this but put on a happy face to your face.

Don't worry.

 

[HKSturboKID]

Originally posted by: Azraele
Good for you for trying. It's better to try and goof than to never try at all. I would not get your hopes up too high. For now, respect her and work on building a great friendship.

I once went out with this girl in college. We went out for about a month and then were mutually separated. We didn't have fights or arguements. So maybe after a week or so, I call her up and ask if we still can be friends and she said NO! Go figure.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

Originally posted by: Insane3D
Anyone else read the thread title as "Got my first erection?"

yes. i did. even though i had already read through the thread once...

 

[bobbybe01]

Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
I think i made a decision, I have been strongly reccomended to ask her to get something to eat after the game this friday, and depending on her answer, i can get a better judgement on how she feels.

OMGWTFBBQPORK

You're an idiot... you should have done this FIRST before confessing that you have a crush on her...

You take her out, have a good time, do it again the next week, maybe twice the week after that, the viola, you have a g/f

Ditto. She already TOLD YOU how she felt. Women (for the most part) are not like the posters here on ATOT:
- they are not straightforward
- they do want to appear to be "bitchy"
- they do not make any sense
- once their mind is made up, it is nearly impossible to change it
- they do spill everything to their girlfriends (even if "no harm is intended").

Please do not make a fool of yourself. There are other women out there. Do not put her up on a pedestal or worship her. She is only a girl. She poops, farts, picks her nose, and has a period every month. She sleeps, eats, and does things like normal humans do. She's not a goddess, she's not perfect. She gets an attitude sometimes, she probably fails a test or two every now and again. She probably made some stupid mistakes in her life. She, like most women, probably does not know what she wants. Even though they say they want a nice guy to treat them well, and are tired of jerks, that is still what they go for. What they really want is for a guy to treat them well. She is probably a drama queen as well, and likes the dramatized life.

Please. Step away.



Feminism: the silly notion that women are actually human.

 

[hysperion]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Yo, im 17 and ive liked this girl forever, just never really able to tell her. I finnaly get a chance, and spill the beans while giving her a ride home (this was my first time doing so, ever) and she simply put it "I cant say i feel the same way as you, but we can still be friends" It was very hard to hear that, but I knew if I never told her how i felt, I would beat myself up for the rest of my life. Im sure I will eventually get over it, but i still feel terrible.


Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend?

Remember the ladder theory...if your friend doesn't have a gf that looks better then this girl then he is only gonna have his own "thoughts" on the table and probably use your experience to laugh about with her and score more points for himself.

 

[Juice Box]

well, im still thinking about take her to get something to eat just so I can be sure nothing will work out, even though now, all I really want is to be friends. I still have to decide, but I am starting to get over this, and am feeling a little bit better, so maybe dropping it is my best bet.

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
so maybe dropping it is my best bet.

Words of wisdom. Given your situation I think that is indeed the best plan of action.

 

[slightlyhuman]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare

Originally posted by: amish
don't bother, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

yeah, i know, but its Senior Year of High School, i want to make the most out of it

trust me, stay single bro, i got hooked up with a girl almost 3 years ago and am still with her although i wish me and her could have met later down the road so i could not worry about a relationship while in HS.

glad to hear you step up to the plate even though you missed, better luck next time.

bros before hoes man..:beer:

 

[Juice Box]

but I think at this point, I dont really want a serious relationship, but more of a close friend I can talk to and hang out with, thats it

 

[PCTweaker5]

Well you should have told her that first cause now shes gonna think youre just tryin to bag her if you get real close all of a sudden. I understand that shes probably pretty hot and that you want to be like best friends and maybe more with her but I would suggest you find another girl to do that with because you might just ruin your life over this one and kill yourself.

 

[Juice Box]

Originally posted by: PCTweaker5
Well you should have told her that first cause now shes gonna think youre just tryin to bag her if you get real close all of a sudden. I understand that shes probably pretty hot and that you want to be like best friends and maybe more with her but I would suggest you find another girl to do that with because you might just ruin your life over this one and kill yourself.

right, and with this being the first person I have ever approached about something like this, I realize I was prone to make a mistake, and now I know