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shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: Supercharged
Damn, I got rejected just last week. Just keep trying, you'll eventually find someone who likes you back.... or feels sorry for you for being so desperate! haha....... o wells.

yeah, Im thinking ill have more Luck in college, the whole computer habit 2 years ago has spoiled my image, and High school will be over soon anyways
Sluts don't care if you are a computer geek. Well....not unless you are some fat Comic Book Guy tub of goo.....

lol, thats great advice
Go back and read my original post in this thread. Take that advice to heart....

Enjoy!
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.
 

Scarpozzi

Lifer
Jun 13, 2000
26,389
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Move on dude. Even if your friend says something about you, I wouldn't bank on it. Just listen to some snoop dog and try to hook it up later...just don't fall in love. You're too young to deal with heart break like that. Just remember, I've bagged the hotest girls ever when I'm an asshole. When I'm a nice guy, they shoot me down....weird concept and I still don't understand it. Girls are whack.
 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.

right, like I keep asking him what he said, and he just tells me not to worry about it, but I dont know whats gonna happen. Like ive never been on a date, so screwing it i guess is possible.
 

Pepsi90919

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend?
she doesn't like you. believe me i know this from experience, stop chasing it, it'll only hurt more
 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: Pepsi90919
Update: So i talked to my friend about this whole thing, and apparently him and her are best friends and i didnt even know it! So, he is like "Dont worry dude, I got you covered, i got it" and he wont tell me what hes gonna do, but should I not get my hopes up, he is a pretty trustworthy friend?
she doesn't like you. believe me i know this from experience, stop chasing it, it'll only hurt more

thats what I keep thinking, but everyone is telling me its not true
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.

right, like I keep asking him what he said, and he just tells me not to worry about it, but I dont know whats gonna happen. Like ive never been on a date, so screwing it i guess is possible.
I have to caution you... sometimes her knowing about your interest can kill it. You should remain yourself and play it cool instead of... uhh... hi... so he told you ? etc. etc. It's easier to be sweet on someone if they know but don't talk about it directly until all the flirting puts you on base.

This is assuming your friend really did his job like he made it sound like he was going to... I don't want to get your hopes up.
 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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I made sure to tell him that if he does anything, that she not know I am involved, since it was his idea. I dont want it to come off as im desperate, and keep beating around the bush so to speak about this situation, and I that I cant take no for an answer.
 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.

right, like I keep asking him what he said, and he just tells me not to worry about it, but I dont know whats gonna happen. Like ive never been on a date, so screwing it i guess is possible.
I have to caution you... sometimes her knowing about your interest can kill it. You should remain yourself and play it cool instead of... uhh... hi... so he told you ? etc. etc.

This is assuming your friend really did his job like he made it sound like he was going to... I don't want to get your hopes up.

oh ok, I hear what you are saying, I wont even mention him if she approaches me about anything, Ill play it off like she came back, and Ill be thankful for her giving me a chance
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.

right, like I keep asking him what he said, and he just tells me not to worry about it, but I dont know whats gonna happen. Like ive never been on a date, so screwing it i guess is possible.
I don't think screwing "it" is gonna happen for you anytime soon.

 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.

right, like I keep asking him what he said, and he just tells me not to worry about it, but I dont know whats gonna happen. Like ive never been on a date, so screwing it i guess is possible.
I don't think screwing "it" is gonna happen for you anytime soon.

gee thanks, but I had a question about this. From what I am told, she is one that doesnt like to go out much, likes sitting around at home and talking to her mom. I am one to not go out often too, but I love taking long drives talking with people. Would offering something like this as friends be a good idea, if she ever mentions anything about us, since its informal, and we can just talk about stuff, which is what i ultimately want.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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just continue talking to her as usual and like I said before... if she knows you are into her (your friend doing his job) then it'll just happen for good or worse. You don't really need an "in".

But we do... where're them pics ?
 

Regs

Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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Don't fret over it. Since you're 17, you likely get a lot of infatuations over girls. You think you really like her and all but then you get over it. Your mind plays tricks on you.

Shit, even Brad Pitt likely got turned down a few times in his prime. Don't let the fact that he's married to one of the hottest girls in show biz hinder that statement though.
 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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right, sorry lol no pics right now... Im not crazy like that, but yeah, I at least want to ask him if I need to do anything to help his "plan" along, so I dont look like an ass if something happens. I just wish I could let her know my intentions, because, while it may be hard to believe, I am mainly looking for someone i can just talk to thats not a guy friend of mine, because Ive been changing, and need somebody to talk to. The physical stuff isint on my mind at all at this point, and that is not my intentions.
 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe he wants to hook up with her?

I thought of that, and hes cool enough he wouldnt do that, anyways, he has a faithful online girlfriend.... that lives 1000 miles away, but that is not a big concern of mine
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.

right, like I keep asking him what he said, and he just tells me not to worry about it, but I dont know whats gonna happen. Like ive never been on a date, so screwing it i guess is possible.
I don't think screwing "it" is gonna happen for you anytime soon.

gee thanks, but I had a question about this. From what I am told, she is one that doesnt like to go out much, likes sitting around at home and talking to her mom. I am one to not go out often too, but I love taking long drives talking with people. Would offering something like this as friends be a good idea, if she ever mentions anything about us, since its informal, and we can just talk about stuff, which is what i ultimately want.
Did you ever offer to do any of that before? If not then NO! Seriously man....back off and play it cool. Jeebus!!!

 

amoeba

Diamond Member
Aug 7, 2003
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Just let her go.

You won't even remember her after a while.

You are still young and experienced in this matter so I would advise to start slow. Go find a starter chick, aka nice but not that hot.

Get more experience and if you make yourself a friend then so be it.

But don't dwell on this one and lose out on other opportunities.
 

Juice Box

Diamond Member
Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: digitalsnare
new update to my story, anything you think about it?
I think you better not fvck it up if he hands her to you on a silver fvcking platter is what I think. Good luck dude.

right, like I keep asking him what he said, and he just tells me not to worry about it, but I dont know whats gonna happen. Like ive never been on a date, so screwing it i guess is possible.
I don't think screwing "it" is gonna happen for you anytime soon.

gee thanks, but I had a question about this. From what I am told, she is one that doesnt like to go out much, likes sitting around at home and talking to her mom. I am one to not go out often too, but I love taking long drives talking with people. Would offering something like this as friends be a good idea, if she ever mentions anything about us, since its informal, and we can just talk about stuff, which is what i ultimately want.
Did you ever offer to do any of that before? If not then NO! Seriously man....back off and play it cool. Jeebus!!!

I know what you are saying, and like I said, this year we dont have any classes so we cant talk much, in the past we have been good friends though. Thats why I was asking if proposing this would be approiate or not.

 

gogeeta13

Diamond Member
Dec 31, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe he wants to hook up with her?

I thought of that, and hes cool enough he wouldnt do that, anyways, he has a faithful online girlfriend.... that lives 1000 miles away, but that is not a big concern of mine

 

gogeeta13

Diamond Member
Dec 31, 2000
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Originally posted by: digitalsnare
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe he wants to hook up with her?

I thought of that, and hes cool enough he wouldnt do that, anyways, he has a faithful online girlfriend.... that lives 1000 miles away, but that is not a big concern of mine

i want details on that, sounds like a good thread.
 
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